Right, I need some advice. Proper advise.

Thank you everybody :)

I think making a diary of everything he does is a really good idea and I will definitely suggest that, and ringing a domestic violence helpline is also something that I might suggest, because that way they can talk confidentially to people with experience and not actually do it face to face.

The thing is, they do find it quite hard to confide in each other, because they’re both so important to each other they’re scared of hurting each other, so they tend to talk about it separately.

They've both said to me at different times that I might actually have to force them to go to the police and actually go in there with them while they give their statements, and I'm wondering whether to do that or not, because it's important that a person is ready before there take such a large step.

^hmmm...

if they're telling you to do that, things might go haywire...at least that's what i think. but you guys should at least assume different scenarios and what would happen in each so that you guys would know what to do. having said that, plan out how you would "attack" each scenario so you can get a good end result.

did that make sense? :D

Murder the pervert. That's what some people would do. Or wait until he goes outside during the night, or in the early morning when it's dark, and kick his ass. Or have someone do it for you.

Domestic disputes can be the most tricky of all situations, just ask your local law enforcement officer. You have to be very careful involving yourself as well. But if you are unsure, read this story:

http://www.star-telegram.com/629/v-print/story/387530.html

Just happened here over the holidays. Sounds eerily familiar.

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color="green"><b> chickenlicious! wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
but from what i've watched on oprah (hehe..)[/QUOTE]

Even Oprah can't keep abuse from happening at her own school.

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME].*.Messenger: Jake Pyndle.*. wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Murder the pervert. That's what some people would do. Or wait until he goes outside during the night, or in the early morning when it's dark, and kick his ass. Or have someone do it for you.[/QUOTE]

Kids, you know what time it is? It's time to call Chuck Norris to open a big can of whoop-ass.

Hi Freya. Obviously these girls feel safe telling you their situation, and they have come to you for help.

I would suggest that you encourage them to contact a crisis/support center, where trained professionals (and trained volunteers) can help them figure out their options. They could make the phone calls from your house, maybe? Then you could be there for them during the call for moral support.

I did a quick Google search and came up with these sites that list the crisis centers in England.

http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/members.html

http://www.theyworkforyou.com/wrans/?id=2006-06-29c.80735.h

http://www.pandys.org/overtherainbow/crisis.html#England

Good luck with helping these girls.