thomasquinn 32989 wrote:
I think it is much more dangerous to give in to those feelings, for the reasons I mention above.
There is a process of healing. It's a normal thing. You mention how giving into these feelings would perpetuate the process. Maybe that's true. But what is definitely true is having a place representative of the very thing that caused immense pain to be planted in the shadow of that pain BECAUSE of that pain.
That's what, I feel, has been constantly overlooked in this thread.
It's not about a mosque being built. There are plenty of mosques and other religious centers around lower Manhattan and elsewhere. It's about this mosque in this spot for this reason.
New Yorkers - probably most Americans and beyond - were looking for a sign from the Muslim community condemning the attacks, and the mindset behind them, in no uncertain terms. If the organizers of this project had taken hold of that need in a more constructive way, I have no doubt the project would have been supported by a great majority. Not all, but a great majority.
The organizers should have, perhaps, called a press conference to announce their intent to build the bridge they kept referring to. They should have openly, publically, from the beginning, announced a desire for input from others to enhance this goal of diversity and respect. Instead they announced a somewhat finalized plan between two entities – The Cordoba Initiative and the American Society for Muslim Advancement – to build a 100 million dollar, 13-story community center that would include a mosque. They would not say who was funding them or how they intended this to be a bridge-builder, but instead coyly said, "They will see."
That's not what the opposition wanted to hear. The opposition wanted details. The opposition wanted to hear unwavering contempt for the attacks since it was because of the attacks, according to the organizers' own words, that this project had been started in the first place...
That makes me think of the Boston marathon bombers' uncle. He immediately came out swinging against his nephews. He called them jerks. He said their actions ruined the good name of his community (paraphrasing), he said they do not represent his beliefs or the rest of his family's beliefs. He went on, angry yet proud. He was impressive and sympathetic and made people who listened, see how this was not an 'us' vs. 'them' situation.
Anything similar to that from these promoters would have changed the flavor of the debate.
And for the record, despite the intense opposition to this project and beyond the initial picketing, plans have progressed without major incident.
It has not been about the public not wanting a mosque in that spot. It's about the way it was presented in the name of sensitivities only to have those sensitivities dismissed as being an invalid argument against the project… even when the developers went as far as to petition for the right to use part of the 9/11 fund for their contentious project.
And now, all of this might be wasted energy because after the discovery of the landing gear wedged between the buildings, the medical examiner has decided to sift the soil for human remains, starting tomorrow morning, and demolition of both buildings now seems likely.