HELP!!!!!!!!!! (how do u stop self harming?)

Find a better psychiatrist for f*ck's sake and do it NOW !!!

If this is not some sick joke you should be hospitalized immediately for your own safety

Obvious troll is obvious.

Sergei. wrote: YoungQueenFan17 wrote: one way 2 stop cuttin is to think of all the people who care about u. thats what i do and it usully works. u can also talk 2 me and we can work it out that way. u can tell me with great detail why u feel like cuttin on that day if u like.

No. If the girl has a serious psychological issue she needs to seek professional help, not turn to feel-good bullshit about all the people in the world who care for her. I'm sure many people have committed suicide despite the fact that they were aware of how "loved" they were.

shes my best friend and i tell her everythig tho,

and thanks to everyone who gave positive suggestions to help, <3 :)

it means alot, thanks :)

This seems to be a common problem:

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/health/view/1085884/1/.html

The sentiments of the vast majority of the guys who have replied to you are correct, you need to get to your GP and let them sort out some counselling for you.  I know it's not easy for you, I really do, and I know you may feel that you can't confide with someone in a more professional capacity face to face, but they are there to get you through this.  We may feel like buddies to you (and we are) but we're not physically there, we can't see you, we can't make you stop.  Only you can do that, and you need to seek help through the correct channels. And apart from the mental issues, your wounds need looking at.   Thinking about how loved you are and what this could do to your loved ones is not the way forward, either.  This may make you feel even more anxious.  Instead, you should be thinking about what it's doing to you.  Do you want to be scarred so badly for the rest of your life?  Do you enjoy the pain?  Whatever pain is making you do this is not worth you exerting even more affliction.  You obviously see Queen as a positive in your life.  Whenever you feel that you need to do this, listen to your favourite tracks instead.  Better still, listen to them on the go - get yourself out for a while, hit the shops, go for a walk, sit in the park, whatever - but keep listening.  But also, please, get your doctor's help.  You are not alone.

Just grab some of your most expensive and sophisticated possessions, and then smash them with a wrench.  If you have a hard time bringing yourself to do this, then consider this : the human body (and the life in it) is a shitload more sophisticated and difficult to replace than the fancy gadgets we like to have around!

Go see a doctor; it'll be the best thing you ever did, trust us.

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME] lifetimefanofqueen wrote: [/QUOTENAME]

i started this forum to ask for HELP! NOT TO BE PUT DOWN EVEN MORE DAMN IT! [/QUOTE]

So you started this forum????? Funny that. For years I thought it was Richard Orchard that started this forum. You only started a thread within a forum..............

Mr Mercury, being a pedant is not helping the lass.  No wonder you're a deity, posting drivel like that.

^ Being a deity means nothing to me. And besides, you missed the point of what I posted. It was meant to be funny.......

Thistleboy 1980 wrote: Mr Mercury, being a pedant is not helping the lass.  No wonder you're a deity, posting drivel like that.

 Nobody pays attention to those stupid titles.

i like what zeb has said in the past:

look at the situation youre in now. think about a toy you wanted when you were 5. that was a huge problem to you then, right? now it is insignificant.

whatever is ailing you now, will be insignificant later. i know it may seem the world is beating you up or sitting on your back, but it will lift. it always does. just keep "looking toward friday when its a monday"...assuming you dont die, friday will come for you :)

doesnt mean it gets easier, just learn to gain strength from it.

im not trying to sound insensitive, but i do know how much of a bitch depression is. everyone has different ways of coping with it. it helps to identify what is causing it (chemical? emotional? environmental? hereditary? recent trauma?) and then battle it from there. there are all sorts of ways to get help, just dont delay in doing it. any problem left to fester only smells worse :)

hope this helps?

Booze will solve all your problems.

Just kidding.

Or am I?

Try seeing a school counselor to talk to someone about everything that is troubling you. I had plenty of demons bothering me, and then when I saw a counselor, it was like a new breath of life.

Gregsynth wrote: Try seeing a school counselor to talk to someone about everything that is troubling you. I had plenty of demons bothering me, and then when I saw a counselor, it was like a new breath of life.

If her guidance counselor is anything like my school's she's probably better off eating a bag of rat poison.

"i like what zeb has said in the past"

Man it's good when the big guns agree with me!   \m/