OK this is going to sound completely crazy, given what I told you about a family friend who did the blood test.....
but in an equally small-world style twist of fate, a girl I was at conservatoire with married Paul Prenter's nephew. Now, the guy is in his mid 30s, and because Paul Prenter lived in London, and died a long time ago, he only has his family's word on the subject of Paul. Neither of the people that told me this story, in other words, had ever met Paul.
Paul's family obviously knew that he worked for Freddie, but they did not meet Freddie, did not know Freddie, and had nothing to do with the business side of Paul's life.
What I've been told though is that the way Roger and Brian spoke about Paul, sadly fits in very well with the way Paul's family think about him. Apparently he was a born manipulator, and fell out with everyone. Actually he sounds like a classic narcissist. Paul Prenter used to try and claim his family fell out with him because he was gay, and his family maintain it was nothing to do with that (despite being devout Irish Catholics), and that basically he treated them all terribly, had everyone walking on eggshells, changeable personality.
I know you're going to think I'm a stalker or a liar, and without actually mentioning names or putting you directly in touch with people I can't prove the story, but it's not a story about Freddie, so much as a second hand story about Paul Prenter kind of disconnected with the Queen thing.
It sounds to me like Paul Prenter was a very sick man in need of psychiatric help, actually, and I always feel a little pang of compassion for that type of person. But much as I feel any kind of compassion it's not as large as the massive "DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THIS PERSON, DONT GO NEAR THIS PERSON" sign that flashes in neon lights in my brain whenever I meet someone like this. Unfortunately, working in music (albeit not the record or pop/rock industry), you meet massive egos in damaged people all the time, and they tend to latch on to more sensitive types who take them under their wing, and can manipulate from a more trusted position. In fact it's so common in the arts that it's practically the norm. Usually these people come across as bright, intelligent, charismatic, well-connected, super-confident and sometimes they end up being highly influential. Quite often they find themselves working for booking agents or artist managers, and furthermore they often end up forming their own company after they've pissed everyone off that they've worked for. Because they make the most noise, they can appear to be good people to know, but after meeting one or two, you can usually sniff one out at twenty paces.
The thing about artists is that they are often not all that confident. They are often shy, awkward, under-confident, and wear performance like a cloak of protection, and would happily live a reclusive life off-stage. A charismatic character like Paul Prenter can allow them to be in performance mode all the time, living out a different version of themselves that they start to believe is real, until it all collapses. I've seen it many times on a small scale. People like to be connected with musicians and actors, even if they're not that well known, because it gives them a certain kudos, if you like. It's all bullshit in reality, most of the time, but Paul Prenter meeting Freddie Mercury, and then finding out he was actually quite impressionable, must have felt like all his christmases had come at once.
Yeah, the slight pang of compassion I feel for manipulators who are clearly ill, like Paul Prenter (and others I have met), is heavily outweighed by the fact that they are total bastards.