Daburcor? wrote:
I imagine it must really suck to have a bunch of random strangers (some far stranger than others) not only know who you are and what you do, but also have a lot to say about it.
However, Mr. Brooks, you are the official archivist for one of the biggest, most enduringly popular musical entities of the past 50-100 years. Couple that with the internet being what it is and you, however unfortunately, lose out on the ability to have the choice in anonymity you once did. Like it or not - and I can definitely understand choosing not to - you became a public figure when you took the job working for Queen. Heavy scrutiny comes with the territory of being a public figure.
It's a shit situation no doubt, but ultimately one in which you will remain until you no longer hold the position you currently hold.
GB: Hello Daburcor.
Regarding, "you, however unfortunately, lose out on the ability to have the choice in anonymity you once did. Like it or not - and I can definitely understand choosing not to - you became a public figure when you took the job working for Queen. "
I have no wish to be anonymous on forums such as this. In other aspects of my life, sure, yes, I enjoy my privacy and the respectful fans I encounter wherever I go who also respect my privacy for the most part. Things are only bad here on QZ. Don't get me wrong though, it's water off a duck's back to me, as I've said before. QZ is only a forum, it's not life or death.
My main point was simply that I think people should stand by what they have to say - good, bad, nasty or otherwise - and do so openly; have the courage of their convictions. If I deem it ok to have a critical negative go at someone on a forum or actually in person, they know exactly who it's coming from because I don't hide. But the reverse isn't so, and that's not fair or equal. If I'm being open and accessible, then so too should the other people I'm speaking with, in my opinion. That to me is a basic human courtesy.
Can you imagine what would happen if you approached Brian in the street, wearing a mask to hide your identity because you had something to say to him but didn't want him to know who you are. He'd think you were mad or rude, or a threat, or an escapee from an asylum, or all of these things. I certainly doubt he'd be too impressed.
I'd feel that way too because I think it's such a basic thing to ask of a respectful fellow human being.