I don't think Mary Austin was a slay

I was looking at all the photos where Freddie and Mary were posing before Mary got insecure about Freddie's sexuality due to a inner homophobic mentality towards him. I have a question.

How could Freddie fall in love with such some random woman when he could've gotten a boyfriend instantly without trying what gives.

There is more to life than dirtbag alley lol! Freddie had the choice like many others. People in the 21st Century shouldn't question morality from yester year.