Freddie in Munich

i dun know

Ok Sally, now let me try to explain to you in a way that perhaps you can understand. When I read Freddie Mercury, the Definitive Biography, I was very touched by the chapter regarding Freddie and Barbara's life together in Munich. It was poignant, funny and sad all at the same time. It was obvious, in my opinion, that they really "loved" each other. I took note at that time that the author had stated a partial address of the apartment that the two of them had bought together. When Barbara died, I remembered that and went back and found that address. I thought it would be nice, as I hadn't seen any sort of condolences being sent through any Queen sites, to send a condolence note myself to Barbara's son. I sent it to that partial address, not even knowing if it would get there. I put my return address on the envelope thinking that the note would just be returned to me. To my surprise, some time later, I got a response from Barbara's son. He was very gracious and kind and appreciative that I took the time. In his response, he left his full details. Now, as an adult, I don't think it would have been nice of me to go ahead and give THAT information to anyone. Why should I? I wanted the address in Munich, so I went back to that book and found that partial address which is listed. When the person who was looking for the address asked, I said it is listed in that book. Was I supposed to go myself and find it? So, there you have it. Can you understand that, Sally? I don't think I'm special, as you say because I have it. Anyone can write to that partial address listed in the book. What's your problem? Perhaps you're jealous I have it?

Now, also, please tell me what wrong information I have ever given a "newbie"?

Also, regarding your ridiculous statement that I don't care for anyone except Freddie, I like all of Queen, and would be very happy to see Brian, Roger or even John. But, yes, Freddie is my favorite. I am entitled to a favorite, am I not, Sally? And, yes, I do know a lot of people who have known Freddie over the years, so what? That makes me a stalker? Who am I stalking, Sally, a man who has been dead for years? Give me a break. I think you're a bit warped! You said "You also seem to think that you are the only one who knows people who knew Freddie, or who is in touch with Brian"--when did I ever say that I was in touch with Brian?

As far as treating people with respect, I'm the one here who, whenever I answer a question, gets jumped on and answered in a very disrespectful and distasteful manner. So, you see Sally, I respond in the same manner.

Scully: Don't ever mention my son again! That was uncalled for.

I mentioned him once and that was because you uploaded a photo of you and him into the Queenzone gallery. If you wanted to show your family to others (which I personally would never do), what do you complain about then?

That's a photo from the U.S. Queen convention in Cleveland. There was still no need to mention my son. And, you wonder why I call certain posters on this board childish. You, Scully, are just plain sick!

OK, let's make a fair deal. I will never mention your son again and you will never mention Freddie again. Deal?

I think you should grow up and get yourself some manners.

throws in my two cents there was no need to bash someone who doesnt post in here and cannot defend themselves..that in itself makes you look bad..

NOBY - I don't know if it was directed towards me but if Malina uploads a photo of her son to QueenZone and I say that he looks almost like Freddie (which is true), is that the bashing you're speaking about? Or is there anything wrong about it at all, as Malina suggests?

The problem is, Scully, you don't talk about someone's child because you don't happen to like that person's responses. That was wrong--you were wrong! You are very ill-mannered and lack integrity and class to do such a thing. If you have nothing better to do than throw cheap shots at children, then I honestly feel sorry for you. Obviously, you were never taught manners and any social graces in your childhood, that as an adult (and I use that word loosely in your case) you would stoop to such a level. What a jerk!

Why would a Queen fan be offended by someone saying that their child resembled Freddie as a child? I don't understand. Mr. Scully doesn't deserve to be ostracized for such an innocent comment. Freddie on the other hand might be a little hurt that you took it as an insult.

"I do know a lot of people who have known Freddie over the years, so what?"

- it is obsessive behaviour; you only want to know these people because they knew Freddie. This is so you can pretend that via 'knowing' these people (i'm not sure how well you actually do know them), you 'know' freddie in some way.

"That makes me a stalker? Who am I stalking, Sally, a man who has been dead for years?"

- as good as. I would definatley class your behaviour in the same category as a stalker. I still stand by my opinion that you are as nutty as a fruitcake.

Is there a link to this pic, Martin?

I could do with a laugh.

Apparently after spending three years as a publically shared photo the pic got removed quickly when it became a topic of discussion... but for the time being, it still resides on the temporary archive site at..........

Okay, after careful consideration I've decided not to give a direct link, but instead some directions:

Go left until you reach the main 'Queen' forum. Make a right and keep going until you see the "Might Be A Little bit of downtime" sign. Enter there and go 4 more blocks until you see the post that says "You can get your lost posts from:" and enter there. Now, alter the address slightly in your travel computer so that you're not seeing anything after the first slash. Enter here and you will be transported to a backup site for all of Queenzone. Walk to the 4th column near the sky and you'll be standing in front of the Library. Once there, you'll see various signposts suddenly appear, and you'll wish to choose the 'Picture Gallery' route and enter. Now simply stroll down to the last section there, off to the right and you'll be in the right place.

Malina asked in a (not frantic at all) email that the picture should be removed from the QZ gallery. Since it's a private picture I thought it's the correct thing to honour the request and delete the picture. Actually, I hoped that would be the end of the argument but it looks like Malina needed to take the opportunity and hit out against Martin like he is the evil on two legs. Whatever you may think, Malina, Martin is sure not the ill mannered jerk you seem to think he is.

I had no idea there was a copy of the picture in the back-up and I would not have known how to delete it there.