You do not know how to handle...

Sometimes I wonder why I always fall in love with someone who wouldn't be determined to be with me.

I'm 18 years old, and when I was 15 I discovered love for the first time. Since then, I've fallen in love with 4 girls, and any of them has belong to me. I haven't had any longterm serious relationship, though I know I'm too young. But being 18 years old, I can asure you that I don't see any expectative of having any relationship on the horizon. I'm hopeless.

This is not a 'help me!' post, this is a 'does anybody have the same problem and, by the way, I'm free?'

You have oodles of time dude. Don't worry yourself.

you always want what you can't have, it's human nature, and you have lots of time ahead of you, a player is not born, it can be done

speaking words of wisdom...

thank you ;)

I never had a relationship until I was 23. And that was the only one. Haven't had another in the 10 years since.

But I never really lost that relationship completely. I'm reminded of it a couple times an hour when I light up a cigarette, since that bastard got me started smoking.

Stay away from love. It gives you lung cancer.

I just can't smoke, I cough everytime I smell the smoke ;)

I dunno, I think of it too many times.

so in order to succeed, no quieras mucho a una chava, no te le "avientes" habla con ella y no le des el poder, tu sigue como si no te importara, hasla reir y pronto te querra :)

a nadie le digo lo que te acabo de decir, por eso lo puse en Español ;)

so there you go Josue :)

thank you mex, esa es mi filosofia, dejo que las cosas surgan, y la trato como una buena amiga, es la mejor manera de estar feliz junto a ella, y aunque no de resultado, lo que importa es la amistad :)

thank you for that,

Josuè.

pero tambien no la trates como amiga, mientras mas lejos mejor, pero cuando la veas, hazla que se acuerde de ti, porque si la tratas como amiga, te querra igual :)

"Someone is bound to say YES eventually"

Exactly, the more you ask, the more chance you have

lol, nice posts you there

thank you for your advices!

Speaking from experiance, I think you'll do just fine Josuè! Keep your chin up!

You'll regret posting that by the time you're 21.

Believe me mate, I felt the same way at 18 and now I'm about to turn 22 and it's a whole different ball game. Good luck!

A solution could be having more of a "bad boy" attitude.
Sadly, these days girls no longer want the loving, caring, sensitive, romantic, and sweet kind of guys. At the same time by becoming a "bad boy" you won't be acting as yourself and that will eventually make things worse. So I wouldn't recommend you to try that.

The fun part of that is seeing girls crying and whinning because they were cheated, humiliated, and completely heartbroken by their "bad boy" boyfriend.

And then you tell them... Duh! He's a bad boy for God's sake. He will eventually end up treating you like that.

lol...oh..generalizations...gotta love 'em.