Dating advice needed!

Hi Gang!

So, how do I ask out someone at work?

It's so tricky in an open plan office - at least 70 people would see me approaching her desk and know I'd have no reason to ask her anything about work.

The body language is good - I think she fancies me back, it all looks good, so what next?

You decide!

Thanks,

The Voice.

Do you think it would be OK to email her at work or phone her at home some evening? Or is that too intrusive?

With continued thanks,

The Voice.

Actually, I always thought you are a woman, VOR 2003. Must be the username :)

I have no advice for your dating problem. In fact, I think it's not a good idea to date someone from your working place in the first place.

YourValentine is right.

One fine June day in 1982 when I was walking to the lunch room at my place of employment, a handsome salesman at the company walked up to me and asked me out on a date. On an impulse I said yes. This September we will be married 20 years.

:-)

Awww..:-) I'm always affraid if I tell people how me and Pieter met, they will think we are dorks..:-B

LOL Erin! :-)

I was just trying to show that dating someone you work with doesn't always turn out to be a disaster! ;-)

Aw, that's a sweet story, Janet :-)

Flirty emails.

"Never put your pen in company's ink"

but if you really want her, ask her out to lunch

Cheers Guys,

Plenty of good advice -thanks for your time.

MexQueen - quite like your tag line. Reminds me of the Oscar Wilde line - 'I always pass on good advice - it is of no use to me'.

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Cheers Guys,

Plenty of good advice -thanks for your time.

MexQueen - quite like your tag line. Reminds me of the Oscar Wilde line - 'I always pass on good advice - it is of no use to me'.

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;) , ask her out to lunch, very informally, it'd be better if you could bring some other coworkers, that way she won't feel freaked out

Blow in her ear - her knickers will just fall off.
Works for Flashy.
Make sure you haven't got a bad cold though, or you'll get a smack in the ol' chops.

A romantic alternative would be to leave some flowers (get 'em cheap down the local cemetary, be sure to wear your Reeboks) on her desk with a note thanking her for brightening up your days.

If she says she ain't interested, or takes out an injunction, tell her you didn't like her anyway and you were only doing it for a bet. You can always slip something in her drink at the next Christmas party, sling her over your shoulder, take her back to yours and get the webcam set up. That way, not only do you get to blow your beans, but also gain some potential blackmail material for future use. Everyone's a winner.

let us know how it develops ;)
i agree during lunch time is a good idea ;)

Never shit on your own doorstep is my advice.