While I'm surprised that she didn't know the rule - it seems to me fairly obvious - I'd say fuck it, keep seeing her, but I reckon go to the other surgery. I know you say it's a hassle but would you rather have the hassle or spend the rest of your life wondering what if?
And get her home number.
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One live,live do it carry on with with no matter what if u really like her.
I agree with Ms. dragonflamez (Odd. A Kiwi and an Aussie agreeing). Go to another surgery but keep seeing her. Therefore you wouldn't one of her surgery's patients. Presto!
Yes, obviously go to the other place again.
Don't listen to people who say "to hell with the rules." That will only get you and her in trouble. Plus, it would be wrong.
Don't listen to people who say "to hell with the rules." That will only get you and her in trouble. Plus, it would be wrong.
I would just like to point out that in the dim and distant pass I went out with a medical secretary and was registered at the very practice where she worked. Everybody knew and nobody cared less.
Mind you my medical history can be summed up by
1979 Tonsilitus
1980 Tonsilitus
1984 Tonsilitus
1985 Bruised head
etc etc
Mind you I binned her when I found out my liver was for sale on ebay. I felt sorry for the poor sap who got that little pressie.
Some of the stories I could tell you, however they're best kept till after you've finished eating...
Mind you my medical history can be summed up by
1979 Tonsilitus
1980 Tonsilitus
1984 Tonsilitus
1985 Bruised head
etc etc
Mind you I binned her when I found out my liver was for sale on ebay. I felt sorry for the poor sap who got that little pressie.
Some of the stories I could tell you, however they're best kept till after you've finished eating...
I hate to sound here like I'm trying to one-up you, because you're definitely in the messier situation, but I'm actually in a vaguely similar situation (very vague now, mind you). While I am not single and I am quite happy with the young man I'm seeing, I have had a mad crush on somebody for about six months now. Aside from being at least three years older than me, he is also deeply religious, and while he manages to be nice about it, his mother would probably kill him if she realized he was associating with one of Satan's little atheist whores (terminology found on IMDB message board).
In both cases, yours and mine, "fuck the rules" is easier said than done. I take it you don't want to lose the poor woman her job. Just find out whether SHE'S willing to risk it, and if she is, proceed with caution. If she's not, it's going to sting a bit, but it won't mean she doesn't like you, and that will numb it.
In both cases, yours and mine, "fuck the rules" is easier said than done. I take it you don't want to lose the poor woman her job. Just find out whether SHE'S willing to risk it, and if she is, proceed with caution. If she's not, it's going to sting a bit, but it won't mean she doesn't like you, and that will numb it.
If he changes clinics there is no remotely rational reason why she should lose her job.
Whether her place of employment is remotely rational is another story ...
Whether her place of employment is remotely rational is another story ...
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anything you decide, think of your own interest first (what would make you happy). that´s what i always do. but, don´t forget you live in a society where people interract almost every day.
good luck!
good luck!
I love Geeks.
I love you too Lisser :)