Boys seriously need to be taught how to work bras...I had no idea it could be so complicated for them :-) But then hooking it and unhooking it at least once a day for the last 10 years or so does tend to make you a master at it.
I think boys ought to be made to WEAR bras for a few weeks during a year of their lives, might wake a few certain people up as to why I don't.
Really, it makes having breasts sound like some big important task, rather than what it is, which is possessing two large, inconvenient, obvious and sometimes painful (at least for me) lumps of fat on the front of your chest. Not that I'm complaining, but sometimes I think life would be easier without them.
I also think women should be allowed to walk around topless (without a bra) the same way that men are. How is a woman's chest any more sexually exciting than a man's chest, hm? Besides, in certain African tribes they do it all the time, and the men in those tribes don't walk around with permanent hard-ons. Sometimes I wonder who exactly we're calling civilized or uncivilized.
- Although I do agree with you that bras can be a huge nuisance at times, you also have to consider that Africa has an entirely different culture from your own. It is considered the norm for women to be topless there, whereas it consider somewhat risque to do that here. Also men may not get aroused 24/7 by that in Africa, but you *know* that generally, men will stare at you and become aroused.
And on the subject of going braless, I would never consider going braless, because I would not feel comfortable doing so and would not appreciate men looking at me in such a manner.
Well... it's quite normal to lay topless on the beach here. It may catch some eyes but it's not that all the men on the beach get aroused or something.
oh dear. here it's kinda the same, but the girls/women who do that here expect the men to be aroused and have sex with them... at least 99% of them...
I think I will move :P