I Just Found Out...

I just found out my Dads brother which is my uncle has died today of Cancer, I don't know which kind but my mum got the phone call from my other uncle who was visting him today. My dad is in tears and I am trying so hard not to myself. I don't want to show him that I'm upset. I'm finding it hard to catch my breath though....It has come as such a shock to me and now I don't feel well. He was such a nice guy.... R.I.P :(

Sorry I just had to tell someone, anyone...

im sorry ill tlak to you on MSN now

* hug * you know were I am

*hugs* You know where I am too.

That's absolutely terrible... I'm deeply sorry for your loss. :'(
*hugs*
Death is so difficult to deal with. You, your dad, and your whole family are very brave.

I'm so sorry. <hugs> But please know it's not only okay to cry, it may be good for your dad to see you doing it - to know you cared that much for his brother. Besides, it's better to get it out than try to hold it all in.

I just added you to my msn, so we can talk if I can be of any help.

Aw, Jess, I'm so sorry... :'( My Mom died from cancer when I was little, so I know what it's like. Also, my Dad passed away just recently, so what you're feeling now is what I'm still sorta feeling. You don't have to be strong and try not to cry. It really helps to let it out. Even if you don't want to cry in front of other people, go somewhere else and just let it all out. I can tell you from personal experience that by keeping it all inside is not a good thing. What I also found out that works (for me, anyway) is writing a letter to someone that you trust and look up to. For me, that is, of course, Brian :P . I just sit down and tell him everything and that way it's like talking about it but not really. Anyway, I don't know if that was any help or not. I know what you're going through... hang in there okay? And listen to lots of Queen! Keep the boys on 24/7!

Mayniac316, my deepest condolences. :( :(
*Hugs**

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Aww, Jessi. Come talk to me.

I am truly sooo sorry for your loss...
This is an all to familiar scene for me...(ive lost many people in my life to cancer, heart disease, ALS and even one voluntary death)
And its not easy...
And it wont ever get easier...
*sooooo many hugs*
and my heart truly goes out to you, ill keep you and your family in my thoughts... and this can only make you a stonger person...
Please dont keep it inside, even if you must cry yourself to sleep, because when my grandmother passed away recently i refused to cry in front of my mother because i wanted to be strong for her and i didnt want to break down...
But i had a few other things going on as well and it almost drove me insane trying to be so strong.
And its always helpful to find someone to talk to, and maybe write or just listen to some music to help show you some happy things...

But dont be afraid to cry...

Im soo sorry for your loss dear. If you need to talk, email me...

I'm sorry, Jess and Marissa. Your family members must be watching over you along with the rest of the angels (including Freddie, of course). I hope I'm not making your day worse by saying that.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry to hear abouth this, both of you. death is always so difficult, even though it's one of the most natural things that happen. I know it doesn't help saying that :( I hope you'll feel better soon.