Thank you DreamingQueen :)
I started to think about it and maybe I did generalize what my mother was saying. I think she was just mad because everyone except for those three people weren't consistant in my life. I don't think she thought all 200 hundred people should be, but she had it out for a few other people I had mentioned that night. I will add that she was drunk at the time, but then again, she usually is at night, so maybe it was just the wine talking...although I have also heard that sometimes people are more honest when they're drunk...I don'tknow.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]FreeSpirit328 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Thank you DreamingQueen :)
I started to think about it and maybe I did generalize what my mother was saying. I think she was just mad because everyone except for those three people weren't consistant in my life. I don't think she thought all 200 hundred people should be, but she had it out for a few other people I had mentioned that night. I will add that she was drunk at the time, but then again, she usually is at night, so maybe it was just the wine talking...although I have also heard that sometimes people are more honest when they're drunk...I don'tknow.[/QUOTE]
Any time :-)
Well you sometimes its hard to see what people actually mean in its entirety, so i suppose you take it as how you think she intentioned it. But you know the situation better than any of us so only you can make that call.
But she cant expect 200 people to be consistent in your life. Especially when its like an unwritten rule that "People come and people go" in your life. But the ones who stay are the ones who truly count. And some come in earlier and stay and some come later and stay. But only time can tell that sort of thing i suppose.
It can be a hard pill to swallow so to speak because Sometimes you'll have people (as im sure you may have experienced) who you think are here to stay, and it turns our wrong for whatever reason.
But whomever comes into and out of your life, stays or goes, take it as experience and learn from it. But by the looks of things, you've got that well covered my dear!
Good luck with everything else as well.
I started to think about it and maybe I did generalize what my mother was saying. I think she was just mad because everyone except for those three people weren't consistant in my life. I don't think she thought all 200 hundred people should be, but she had it out for a few other people I had mentioned that night. I will add that she was drunk at the time, but then again, she usually is at night, so maybe it was just the wine talking...although I have also heard that sometimes people are more honest when they're drunk...I don'tknow.[/QUOTE]
Any time :-)
Well you sometimes its hard to see what people actually mean in its entirety, so i suppose you take it as how you think she intentioned it. But you know the situation better than any of us so only you can make that call.
But she cant expect 200 people to be consistent in your life. Especially when its like an unwritten rule that "People come and people go" in your life. But the ones who stay are the ones who truly count. And some come in earlier and stay and some come later and stay. But only time can tell that sort of thing i suppose.
It can be a hard pill to swallow so to speak because Sometimes you'll have people (as im sure you may have experienced) who you think are here to stay, and it turns our wrong for whatever reason.
But whomever comes into and out of your life, stays or goes, take it as experience and learn from it. But by the looks of things, you've got that well covered my dear!
Good luck with everything else as well.
if you like it enjoy it. but if you find it confusing find a better way to spend your godly time. like at a youth group, or something. the only reason i go to youth group sometimes is because there are some really hot guys there. sad i know.
I know how you feel. It's hard to read people and it's easy to feel like people aren't being upfront with you. Just believe in yourself and let the rest take hold :)
those hot guys i was talking about, they dont come anymore. bummer. but none of them are as hot as brian may! (thats impossible)
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]im a fool wrote: [/QUOTENAME]if you like it enjoy it. but if you find it confusing find a better way to spend your godly time. like at a youth group, or something. the only reason i go to youth group sometimes is because there are some really hot guys there. sad i know.[/QUOTE]
Well, we can both think it's said together, lol. One of the reasons I joined my church was to find a guy, lol.
It's part of the reason I joined the National Federation For The Blind...to meet men. No luck though, except for one single 26 year old, the rest are Senior citizens who for the most part are married.
We'll see what happens with In-sight, the new organization I'm joining. I fear that most of them are senior citizens as well though.
Well, we can both think it's said together, lol. One of the reasons I joined my church was to find a guy, lol.
It's part of the reason I joined the National Federation For The Blind...to meet men. No luck though, except for one single 26 year old, the rest are Senior citizens who for the most part are married.
We'll see what happens with In-sight, the new organization I'm joining. I fear that most of them are senior citizens as well though.
I could always get into all my insecuries about men, but I won't do that...that could go on for years, lol
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]FreeSpirit328 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I could always get into all my insecuries about men, but I won't do that...that could go on for years, lol[/QUOTE]
Amen to that sister!
me too!
Amen to that sister!
me too!