Here's my current problem, although it probably doesn't sound like that big of a problem.
A guy from a dating site that caters to members of my church emailed me; he said he was interested in getting to know me better.
The problem is that he lives in up-state New York, and I live in Rhode Island.
Why is that a problem? It is only a four hour drive.
My folks don't allow me to go anywhere alone. I'm 27 years old, and I can't go anywhere.
Yes, I know it's an online thing and I have to be careful. I'm not thinking about just running there tomorrow. I told this guy that I would have to save money, which would probably take me six months or so. I figure if he's still around by then, he's not planning on killing me.
Anyway...
Queeny39, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It must really suck. Maybe you you call your Dad when he's not around for that amount of time? He won't physically be there, but if you could call him or something, it helps.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]young_strat_man wrote: [/QUOTENAME]My father died when i was 10, i can understand what you are going through, but i will never see him again, so at least you have him for the most part, keep your chin up hunny, it will get better. That is one thing i have promised to my wife and kids, i will never let them feel that they aren't getting the most of me and i really want to be around them every possible moment, if they need space, fine, but i am going to be around when they need or want me to be.[/QUOTE]
That is really respectable and nice of you, young_strat_man. Alot of the people here would be as lucky as ever having you in their families.
That is really respectable and nice of you, young_strat_man. Alot of the people here would be as lucky as ever having you in their families.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]young_strat_man wrote: [/QUOTENAME]My father died when i was 10, i can understand what you are going through, but i will never see him again, so at least you have him for the most part, keep your chin up hunny, it will get better. That is one thing i have promised to my wife and kids, i will never let them feel that they aren't getting the most of me and i really want to be around them every possible moment, if they need space, fine, but i am going to be around when they need or want me to be.[/QUOTE]
gee.. i wish my dad waas more like you. i always wished that he was less uptight. :)
gee.. i wish my dad waas more like you. i always wished that he was less uptight. :)
I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=teal>Cookies!!<h6>Spicy<h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/ [/QUOTE]
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=660066>Fredlilah<h6>12345678 wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=teal>Cookies!!<h6>Spicy<h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/ [/QUOTE]
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
Yeah that's me too. I'm too weird to develop strong friendships. Good thing I have queenzone :')
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
Yeah that's me too. I'm too weird to develop strong friendships. Good thing I have queenzone :')
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=660066>Fredlilah<h6>12345678 wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=teal>Cookies!!<h6>Spicy<h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/ [/QUOTE]
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
I have so many aqcuantainces it's not even funny. Most of my friends are in high school already and they are going to different high schools than me, so I won't see them next year. I still have lots of friends, but I miss my older friends. That reminds me, I'm young for my grade. I was 12 going into the 8th grade, but now I'm 13(finally). This girl just turned 14 in my science class. Her name is Emily
Me-you're already 14!
Emily-yeah, aren't you?
Me-I just turned 13 on August second
Emily-Wow, you're a youngster, aren't you *smiles*
It turns out that a lot of people in my grade are 14. I belive I am in the wrong grade :(
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
I have so many aqcuantainces it's not even funny. Most of my friends are in high school already and they are going to different high schools than me, so I won't see them next year. I still have lots of friends, but I miss my older friends. That reminds me, I'm young for my grade. I was 12 going into the 8th grade, but now I'm 13(finally). This girl just turned 14 in my science class. Her name is Emily
Me-you're already 14!
Emily-yeah, aren't you?
Me-I just turned 13 on August second
Emily-Wow, you're a youngster, aren't you *smiles*
It turns out that a lot of people in my grade are 14. I belive I am in the wrong grade :(
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=grape>Mrs.Freddie Mercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=660066>Fredlilah<h6>12345678 wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=teal>Cookies!!<h6>Spicy<h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/ [/QUOTE]
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
I have so many aqcuantainces it's not even funny. Most of my friends are in high school already and they are going to different high schools than me, so I won't see them next year. I still have lots of friends, but I miss my older friends. That reminds me, I'm young for my grade. I was 12 going into the 8th grade, but now I'm 13(finally). This girl just turned 14 in my science class. Her name is Emily
Me-you're already 14!
Emily-yeah, aren't you?
Me-I just turned 13 on August second
Emily-Wow, you're a youngster, aren't you *smiles*
It turns out that a lot of people in my grade are 14. I belive I am in the wrong grade :([/QUOTE]
I wish I was in the next grade up... At my school, which is only around 400 people (pre-K - 12th grade) there aren't alot of people to make friends with. There are tons of preps and wannabes, and of course I'm the odd nut for liking rock and swing in a sea of rap fans. My two best friends are always squabbling over this guy, I guess you could say it's annoying... But they're pretty nice most of the time, and I know things could be ALOT worse. Sorry to complain.
Oh, I'm really sorry. :(
There's not a very wide "selection of friends" to choose from at my school.. I'm friends with the nice people, but we don't really have a lot in common. ;_;
Actually, it seems like I only have aqcuantainces, sometimes! :O[/QUOTE]
I have so many aqcuantainces it's not even funny. Most of my friends are in high school already and they are going to different high schools than me, so I won't see them next year. I still have lots of friends, but I miss my older friends. That reminds me, I'm young for my grade. I was 12 going into the 8th grade, but now I'm 13(finally). This girl just turned 14 in my science class. Her name is Emily
Me-you're already 14!
Emily-yeah, aren't you?
Me-I just turned 13 on August second
Emily-Wow, you're a youngster, aren't you *smiles*
It turns out that a lot of people in my grade are 14. I belive I am in the wrong grade :([/QUOTE]
I wish I was in the next grade up... At my school, which is only around 400 people (pre-K - 12th grade) there aren't alot of people to make friends with. There are tons of preps and wannabes, and of course I'm the odd nut for liking rock and swing in a sea of rap fans. My two best friends are always squabbling over this guy, I guess you could say it's annoying... But they're pretty nice most of the time, and I know things could be ALOT worse. Sorry to complain.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=teal>Cookies!!<h6>Spicy<h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have some crappy, lying, shitfaced, condescending "friends" (From school) and I hate them. I don't know why the majority of girls at my school have to be pissy and attidudinal :(( I have a specific reason I hate these (")friends(") too, but it's a long story. :/ [/QUOTE]
girl, leave them. if you don't like em, leave em. that's what i did, and i felt so much better. :)
girl, leave them. if you don't like em, leave em. that's what i did, and i felt so much better. :)
Ok i have a problem, a good problem i suppose. :)
Edited for privacy. :)
Edited for privacy. :)
Edited for privacy.
Thanks for your help Queen_Rox. You are a dear.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=?B2F><b>Crezchi wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Thanks for your help Queen_Rox. You are a dear.[/QUOTE]
No problem, and thanks for the comment, Crezchi. Except, I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.
No problem, and thanks for the comment, Crezchi. Except, I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color="0066CC">Queen_Rox wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=?B2F><b>Crezchi wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Thanks for your help Queen_Rox. You are a dear.[/QUOTE]
No problem. I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.[/QUOTE]
Ok i understand that. But i never asked anything but advice. Anyways, can you please edit 'my original post' in your reply?
No problem. I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.[/QUOTE]
Ok i understand that. But i never asked anything but advice. Anyways, can you please edit 'my original post' in your reply?
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=?B2F><b>Crezchi wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color="0066CC">Queen_Rox wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=?B2F><b>Crezchi wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Thanks for your help Queen_Rox. You are a dear.[/QUOTE]
No problem. I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.[/QUOTE]
Ok i understand that. But i never asked anything but advice. Anyways, can you please edit 'my original post' in your reply?[/QUOTE]
Would you please re-phrase that again?
No problem. I may be over 18, but I have to be careful not to e-mail people that I don't know. No offense, but I won't ever do that again. I may have done it at least more than once (not too many times), but this time I have to be protective of my personal information---which I've mistakenly given out at least more than once--because I'd rather stay out of trouble.[/QUOTE]
Ok i understand that. But i never asked anything but advice. Anyways, can you please edit 'my original post' in your reply?[/QUOTE]
Would you please re-phrase that again?