Well looks like it's the end of my life!

I have had another argument with cristina today. All because I corrected her on the way she said vegetarian. It's not my fault that I correct people, its just the way I am!!! And then she starts saying I'm doing it to make her look stupid! Why the fuck would I do that to my best friend? So she walks off in huff and I get all upset and a big crowd gathers and I tell them my side of the story. So it turns out the entire population of Lelands High School knows that the Emo has fallen out with her best friend. I spend last lesson down at social inclusion because I'm so upset and then on the way home I find out from someone in her class that Cristina has been slagging me off, saying I'm ruling her life and I'm an obnoxious know-it-all and a big show off. What a good way to knock ones confidence! If thats not bad enough she is not accepting my sorries!

And I have stuck by her through thick and thin and this is the thanks I get! Well looks like I may as well kill myself, no-one seems to like me at the moment, everytime I open my mouth I seem to offend someone without meaning to!

Is this some kind of joke?

What is that supposed to mean? It true! Why in fucks name would I post some shit like this if it wasn't true?!
Maybe I could have worded the title different but thats how I feel right now!

I know this story too many times... Trust me. She's just probably getting off at the attention she's getting at the moment. Some people like to see others cry and beg for forgiveness. It makes them feel big or something. Don't let that happen. Don't let her see you are bothered, if THAT is the case. There could be other reasons why she's acting like that, but ofcourse I wouldn't know. I don't know if you know... Maybe lately she's having some family issues? Even if she did, it's not nice to take it out of others around her. Anyway, you shouldn't stress over this... She'll come round soon hopefully. :-)

Jenna i do not know about real life, but on this site many people like you.

maybe you should learn how to speak to people and learn what ticks off your own best friend
its something you have to learn
i learned it fast seeing as I've been tight best friend with Sarah for 9 years and I learned how to say things and so has she.
while we learned this about each other our little tiffs never lasted more than a few hours.
so0o0o0o you have to get up gets and submit to talking to her in person about it
tell her what you just took a while to write to us strangers and tell her you'll try to stop



and don't people who you say don't even like you that much any of your business it just gives them a one up on you
it helps nothing really



LIVE AND LEARNNN its more fun to make mistakes

No, no for the love of all that is good and holy don't go saying things like 'this = the end of my life' I can see why you're upset. But you know what? By tomorrow or at least by the end of the week you'll have made up. That's how friendships work!! Don't worry, just give her the space she needs. It sounds like she's being childish if what she's angry about is you correcting her grammar. It may go deeper than that of course but just give her her space as I say, don't bitch, and things'll work out I promise!!

The thing that really hurt the most was that she was bitching off about me behid my back, saying I was trying to be all that, she should have seen me when I was in last lesson, I was soooo upset that I was sent out of class. After school was the worse bit... the thing I don't like is that she slagged me off and made me out to be a stuck up, ignorant bitch who thinks she is always right, I'm not! I'm the complete opposite of that! She is so stubborn she can't see that she is twisting what acctually happened. I like her and everything, I've know her for something like 10 years and all the while I was in social inclusion I defended her and then I find out she has been bitching off about me... it's enough to send one over the edge!

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=0099FF>Killer Queenie wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I have had another argument with cristina today. All because I corrected her on the way she said vegetarian. It's not my fault that I correct people, its just the way I am!!! And then she starts saying I'm doing it to make her look stupid! Why the fuck would I do that to my best friend? So she walks off in huff and I get all upset and a big crowd gathers and I tell them my side of the story. So it turns out the entire population of Lelands High School knows that the Emo has fallen out with her best friend. I spend last lesson down at social inclusion because I'm so upset and then on the way home I find out from someone in her class that Cristina has been slagging me off, saying I'm ruling her life and I'm an obnoxious know-it-all and a big show off. What a good way to knock ones confidence! If thats not bad enough she is not accepting my sorries!

And I have stuck by her through thick and thin and this is the thanks I get! Well looks like I may as well kill myself, no-one seems to like me at the moment, everytime I open my mouth I seem to offend someone without meaning to!

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I thought this was a joke to intentionally annoy the elder Zoners.

No it accutually happened, I'm sorry I snapped by the way, I'm just so upset about it and I'm feeling a bit insucre about myself at the moment...

She's being silly, leave her be and she'll come round! Chin up!

Thanks everyone! It's nice to know there are people out there who understand what I'm going through and the advice will help loads! thanks xxx

Jenna maybe that girl does not deserve to have you as a friend.

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=0099FF>Killer Queenie wrote: [/QUOTENAME]The thing that really hurt the most was that she was bitching off about me behid my back, saying I was trying to be all that, she should have seen me when I was in last lesson, I was soooo upset that I was sent out of class. After school was the worse bit... the thing I don't like is that she slagged me off and made me out to be a stuck up, ignorant bitch who thinks she is always right, I'm not! I'm the complete opposite of that! She is so stubborn she can't see that she is twisting what acctually happened. I like her and everything, I've know her for something like 10 years and all the while I was in social inclusion I defended her and then I find out she has been bitching off about me... it's enough to send one over the edge![/QUOTE]


don't be a hypocrite
talking about someone behind their backs is tasteless you don't want to stoop to that level
just when she comes around forgive her and say that it bugged you and settle it the right way

I have known her for years and years, and she has taken some stick over the last year and I have tryed to help her out but she is stubbon and takes out her anger on me. She probably doesn't mean it but if she does then... oh well I have other friends... but I guess I don't know... we shall see how it goes tomorrow...