Shave your head! DUH!
No no just kidding, don't.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Woodie wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)[/QUOTE]
The truest thing here yet! You're not the one getting anything wrong, it's them.
Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)[/QUOTE]
The truest thing here yet! You're not the one getting anything wrong, it's them.
Girls, can't live with em, can't live without em....
Some girl chose my friend over me last night, and he's a sleazy bastard, nice guys finish last i tell ya.......become a prick and you will get where you want!
Some girl chose my friend over me last night, and he's a sleazy bastard, nice guys finish last i tell ya.......become a prick and you will get where you want!
Well, I don't like bad boys. Back in my dating days, if you were nasty to me or got a cocky attitude with me, you were completely embarrassed soon after.
Z, is this the same girl that is/was gay? I think I remember you liking a girl that you said was gay? I might be wrong. Anyway, the right person that is deservant of you will come when you least expect it and you are not looking. If this girl has her attention on another man, leave her be. Things might change and work out between you but I find that if you let things go on their own they usually work out for the best.
I do love the idea of you marrying Freya though. You two would be an EXCELLENT couple. My blessing has been given.
:)
Z, is this the same girl that is/was gay? I think I remember you liking a girl that you said was gay? I might be wrong. Anyway, the right person that is deservant of you will come when you least expect it and you are not looking. If this girl has her attention on another man, leave her be. Things might change and work out between you but I find that if you let things go on their own they usually work out for the best.
I do love the idea of you marrying Freya though. You two would be an EXCELLENT couple. My blessing has been given.
:)
I'm a little hungover and my stomach is making funny noises, but there's always time to answer QZ posts, I think.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Confidence, baby. Confidence. Women like men who are proud but not arrogant. Humble, not self-deprecating. Not sure if you realize it, but you do tend to put yourself down.
You have a lot to offer - you're funny, you're talented, you have sexy hair. :-) Now - when the buzz has worn off - get to work on your self confidence. When you do, women will stick a little closer to you and stop going off with their 'bald boyfriends'.
Sorry that doesn't help with this particular woman, though. :-/
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I do put myself down..... I'm only trying to be realistic, though! I know women aren't all as shallow as some of the ones I've met, but even the down-to-earth types have real life considerations to make.... I'm never going to be rolling around in cash, put it that way.
Nothing's going to help with this woman, of course.... I knew that a year ago. Tis just hard trying to move on. There isn't anyone I've met that can figure me out in a matter of seconds the way she does :(
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]JoxerTheBeachcomberPirate wrote: [/QUOTENAME]go to bed dude and sleep it off.youve had an emotional day with your birthday and everything.
you will think more logically in the morning with a hangover..[/QUOTE]
Doing that now... ha-ha. My left thumb is twitching uncontrollably. I don't think I drank enough!
I couldn't sleep after the party, was too depressed, so I watched TJ Hooker until fatigue took me. How funny is that? TJ Hooker is terribly written, but I still say Shatner is the best cop on TV.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Woodie wrote: [/QUOTENAME]There's just one thing you can do... Shave your head!
Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)[/QUOTE]
HAHA... oh if only. There's probably a few who like the covers I can play, but my music itself....
Nope :/ Not that I disagree with them there, but that's a different kettle of fish.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]fatty wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Go round to her house and put a brick through her window.
fatty.[/QUOTE]
I was going to try that on her boyfriend...
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=666600><b>Music Man wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Keep getting sloshed.[/QUOTE]
People gave me wine for my birthday. I don't have a choice!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]! Jake ! wrote: [/QUOTENAME]get down on your knees and tell her you love her[/QUOTE]
Trivia : even on my knees, I'm taller than she is.
The time for a move like that would've been... oh... fuck, how long now.... 2006. Don't you know it ; back then we'd only just met and I was too unsure to DO anything. By the time my mind was made up on how I felt, she'd made up her mind that we're 'best friends forever' material .... *puke*.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<b><font color=007788> ?Freya? wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Come to England and we shall get married and live in a castle and live happily ever after.
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I don't want to give a wrong impression of myself, but that really is the best idea I've seen in here. To paraphrase Wayne's World, though : "I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! I suck!"
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]yamaha wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Try a different booze?[/QUOTE]
I was drinking Smirnoff all night.. it's those beer-sized bottles that taste a bit like lemonade.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Donna13 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]It's your party, you can cry if you want to.
Hey, nothing good ever happens at parties anyway. The good things happen when you least expect them to.
I think.
Not sure.
Yes, that settles it. You shall move to England and marry Freya.
Or fatty's idea.[/QUOTE]
I'm thinking they're both pretty awesome ideas, actually!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]beautifulsoup wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Zebonka12 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]OKies,
just finished my birthd
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Confidence, baby. Confidence. Women like men who are proud but not arrogant. Humble, not self-deprecating. Not sure if you realize it, but you do tend to put yourself down.
You have a lot to offer - you're funny, you're talented, you have sexy hair. :-) Now - when the buzz has worn off - get to work on your self confidence. When you do, women will stick a little closer to you and stop going off with their 'bald boyfriends'.
Sorry that doesn't help with this particular woman, though. :-/
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I do put myself down..... I'm only trying to be realistic, though! I know women aren't all as shallow as some of the ones I've met, but even the down-to-earth types have real life considerations to make.... I'm never going to be rolling around in cash, put it that way.
Nothing's going to help with this woman, of course.... I knew that a year ago. Tis just hard trying to move on. There isn't anyone I've met that can figure me out in a matter of seconds the way she does :(
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]JoxerTheBeachcomberPirate wrote: [/QUOTENAME]go to bed dude and sleep it off.youve had an emotional day with your birthday and everything.
you will think more logically in the morning with a hangover..[/QUOTE]
Doing that now... ha-ha. My left thumb is twitching uncontrollably. I don't think I drank enough!
I couldn't sleep after the party, was too depressed, so I watched TJ Hooker until fatigue took me. How funny is that? TJ Hooker is terribly written, but I still say Shatner is the best cop on TV.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Woodie wrote: [/QUOTENAME]There's just one thing you can do... Shave your head!
Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)[/QUOTE]
HAHA... oh if only. There's probably a few who like the covers I can play, but my music itself....
Nope :/ Not that I disagree with them there, but that's a different kettle of fish.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]fatty wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Go round to her house and put a brick through her window.
fatty.[/QUOTE]
I was going to try that on her boyfriend...
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=666600><b>Music Man wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Keep getting sloshed.[/QUOTE]
People gave me wine for my birthday. I don't have a choice!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]! Jake ! wrote: [/QUOTENAME]get down on your knees and tell her you love her[/QUOTE]
Trivia : even on my knees, I'm taller than she is.
The time for a move like that would've been... oh... fuck, how long now.... 2006. Don't you know it ; back then we'd only just met and I was too unsure to DO anything. By the time my mind was made up on how I felt, she'd made up her mind that we're 'best friends forever' material .... *puke*.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<b><font color=007788> ?Freya? wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Come to England and we shall get married and live in a castle and live happily ever after.
[/QUOTE]
I don't want to give a wrong impression of myself, but that really is the best idea I've seen in here. To paraphrase Wayne's World, though : "I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! I suck!"
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]yamaha wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Try a different booze?[/QUOTE]
I was drinking Smirnoff all night.. it's those beer-sized bottles that taste a bit like lemonade.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Donna13 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]It's your party, you can cry if you want to.
Hey, nothing good ever happens at parties anyway. The good things happen when you least expect them to.
I think.
Not sure.
Yes, that settles it. You shall move to England and marry Freya.
Or fatty's idea.[/QUOTE]
I'm thinking they're both pretty awesome ideas, actually!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]beautifulsoup wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Zebonka12 wrote: [/QUOTENAME]OKies,
just finished my birthd
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Lisser wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Well, I don't like bad boys. Back in my dating days, if you were nasty to me or got a cocky attitude with me, you were completely embarrassed soon after.
Z, is this the same girl that is/was gay? I think I remember you liking a girl that you said was gay? I might be wrong. Anyway, the right person that is deservant of you will come when you least expect it and you are not looking. If this girl has her attention on another man, leave her be. Things might change and work out between you but I find that if you let things go on their own they usually work out for the best.
I do love the idea of you marrying Freya though. You two would be an EXCELLENT couple. My blessing has been given.
:)[/QUOTE]
This isn't the gay one, who is more or less my best friend these days. After a long time rewiring my head, I came to realise that I just wasn't used to the idea of having a female friend who was that close, but not being her fuckbuddy. I really didn't love her in 'that' way, and I'm glad I realised it because we're good friends.
This other girl is different, and I know that seems ludicrous, but yeah.. everytime I start to get over her, the feelings come back as soon as I talk with her for any length of time.
So... how much does it cost to fly to the UK, anyway?
(Hehe. Don't anyone go and get a restraining order on the strength of that last comment, I'm too poor for that caper at the moment).
Z, is this the same girl that is/was gay? I think I remember you liking a girl that you said was gay? I might be wrong. Anyway, the right person that is deservant of you will come when you least expect it and you are not looking. If this girl has her attention on another man, leave her be. Things might change and work out between you but I find that if you let things go on their own they usually work out for the best.
I do love the idea of you marrying Freya though. You two would be an EXCELLENT couple. My blessing has been given.
:)[/QUOTE]
This isn't the gay one, who is more or less my best friend these days. After a long time rewiring my head, I came to realise that I just wasn't used to the idea of having a female friend who was that close, but not being her fuckbuddy. I really didn't love her in 'that' way, and I'm glad I realised it because we're good friends.
This other girl is different, and I know that seems ludicrous, but yeah.. everytime I start to get over her, the feelings come back as soon as I talk with her for any length of time.
So... how much does it cost to fly to the UK, anyway?
(Hehe. Don't anyone go and get a restraining order on the strength of that last comment, I'm too poor for that caper at the moment).
Glad to see your hangover isn't so bad that you couldn't function...yours must be better than mine. Last two times I was completely smashed, I had a hangover so badly the next day I spent the entire day in bed (only moving to run to the toilet).
As far as the girl thing goes...you've been given a lot of good advice already. Confidence (take care it doesn't cross over into arrogance), being nice, all that good stuff. There is always the saying that nice guys finish last, but I'm not always sure that's the case. A relationship takes a chemistry between the people, and I know a few really nice guys that I'm friends with that have been interested in dating me. I've always had to turn them down, because the chemistry just wasn't there; you can't have emotions that just aren't there. Sure, you can fake it for a while, but it blows up in your face. As far as the girls go...well, if you are looking at younger girls that could be the problem too. Anyone under the age of about 25 or so still has TONS of maturing and growing up to do....hell even a few of the 25+ crowd does as well.
But you seem nervous and pre-occupied about all of this. So here is my advice. You have to be genuine.....be yourself. If you are nervous or anything like that or trying to be something you are not, girls pick up on that right away. Just be yourself. Second piece of advice is to go with the flow...you have TONS of time left. Believe me, I know it's hard; I'm 25 and figured I'd have someone by now and even possibly be married, and I've had more than a few break downs over that in the last few years. But after my last break up I realized that it wasn't healthy to keep doing that...having break downs over something you can't control. It just plays games with your mind, and trust me, no one wants to be with someone who has a bunch of mental issues from stuff like that. So I took a page from the play book of a very good Dutch friend of mine who was studying here last year: Go with the flow. No point in worrying about something you can't change. It's a kind of c'est la vie attitude that I've found helps me out a lot.
As far as the girl thing goes...you've been given a lot of good advice already. Confidence (take care it doesn't cross over into arrogance), being nice, all that good stuff. There is always the saying that nice guys finish last, but I'm not always sure that's the case. A relationship takes a chemistry between the people, and I know a few really nice guys that I'm friends with that have been interested in dating me. I've always had to turn them down, because the chemistry just wasn't there; you can't have emotions that just aren't there. Sure, you can fake it for a while, but it blows up in your face. As far as the girls go...well, if you are looking at younger girls that could be the problem too. Anyone under the age of about 25 or so still has TONS of maturing and growing up to do....hell even a few of the 25+ crowd does as well.
But you seem nervous and pre-occupied about all of this. So here is my advice. You have to be genuine.....be yourself. If you are nervous or anything like that or trying to be something you are not, girls pick up on that right away. Just be yourself. Second piece of advice is to go with the flow...you have TONS of time left. Believe me, I know it's hard; I'm 25 and figured I'd have someone by now and even possibly be married, and I've had more than a few break downs over that in the last few years. But after my last break up I realized that it wasn't healthy to keep doing that...having break downs over something you can't control. It just plays games with your mind, and trust me, no one wants to be with someone who has a bunch of mental issues from stuff like that. So I took a page from the play book of a very good Dutch friend of mine who was studying here last year: Go with the flow. No point in worrying about something you can't change. It's a kind of c'est la vie attitude that I've found helps me out a lot.
I don't ever think I'll be glad that I didn't wind up with her, she's a rare one.
This is all rather pathetic of me, but... you know.... you bump into someone you can talk with for 8 hours a day and not get bored, 'n' you sort of start to want to be around them??
Forgive me, I'm hungover. Ha-ha.
ehehe all good... these thigns to happen man...
I know just what you mean and how you feel...
but soon enough, you will be able to feel better and move on.
This is all rather pathetic of me, but... you know.... you bump into someone you can talk with for 8 hours a day and not get bored, 'n' you sort of start to want to be around them??
Forgive me, I'm hungover. Ha-ha.
ehehe all good... these thigns to happen man...
I know just what you mean and how you feel...
but soon enough, you will be able to feel better and move on.
Don't listen to these guys. Glenfiddich is as good a girlfriend as anyone. And she'll never cheat on you.
Cheers all, much obliged.
:)
:)
what do you think you should do now that youre sober? ;)
I'm going to alphabetise the suggestions on page 1 and try to implement them until life stops sucking.
Actually, I'm going to go hand some forms in and then go 'looking' at guitars.
Gee, I wonder if I'll buy one.
Actually, I'm going to go hand some forms in and then go 'looking' at guitars.
Gee, I wonder if I'll buy one.
You know what man, I was her bald boyfriend.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Olavi wrote: [/QUOTENAME]You know what man, I was her bald boyfriend.[/QUOTE]
You're all heart, baldy.
What was your favourite band, again?
You're all heart, baldy.
What was your favourite band, again?
Ah, nevermind. I admit ... I don't have any answers. You're doing pretty well, I think.