People, I'd like to have your opinion on something. Why do porn movies make so much success? Why the search for this kind of thing in the web is so overwhelming?
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...I mean, first, because it's...I mean...sexuality is presented in such an agressive way, I think...and everything is so fake and absolutely out of touch with reality. The women usually do things in these movies that are absolutely degrading, absolutely degrading, really, it's ugly, I don't feel at ease describing it.
Ok, that goes for movies in general, all of them are based on illusion and demand us a certain suspension of disbelief. Ok. There are movies in which violence is all that there is and people find it cool.
But that still strikes me as odd. I mean...it's sex. I mean...violence, well, in fact there's nothing odd about it, is there?
But what...I mean...I ask for people who do enjoy these movies, and I don't want to judge anyone, it's just a doubt: where does the pleasure of seeing it come from?
Do men find it attractive to see women playing degraded and submissive roles, often humiliating? Because this is what I saw!
I mean...why?
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And...do you think this kind of movie has any influence whatsoever on the sexual behavior of people in the REAL LIFE?
Like...let's suppose some day - unlikely..hehe! - I start dating someone. He becomes my boyfriend. Like...suppose the things are going to get rough, so to speak. Both, me and the boy, are sexually wow...but I like the boy. And then the boy wants do to things with me that he sees in these movies...it'd be nightmare, I'd never make it, even if I were deeply in love!
I mean...and...I fear that these things might happen.
It's all hypotetical. I don't have a boyfriend and am not dating anyone. But I do think that the way guys approach me sometimes when they do, for some reason I can't explain, feel attraction for me is quite...I mean...they want to have sex, and that's all. That's my impression.
It may be a prejudice and have sounded offensive to really kind boys, who want to have sex, for sure, but maybe not only that...like...
Is there love? Or is it an invention?
Like...let's suppose some day - unlikely..hehe! - I start dating someone. He becomes my boyfriend. Like...suppose the things are going to get rough, so to speak. Both, me and the boy, are sexually wow...but I like the boy. And then the boy wants do to things with me that he sees in these movies...it'd be nightmare, I'd never make it, even if I were deeply in love!
I mean...and...I fear that these things might happen.
It's all hypotetical. I don't have a boyfriend and am not dating anyone. But I do think that the way guys approach me sometimes when they do, for some reason I can't explain, feel attraction for me is quite...I mean...they want to have sex, and that's all. That's my impression.
It may be a prejudice and have sounded offensive to really kind boys, who want to have sex, for sure, but maybe not only that...like...
Is there love? Or is it an invention?
Why are your questions so long??
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Yara wrote: [/QUOTENAME]People, I'd like to have your opinion on something. Why do porn movies make so much success? Why the search for this kind of thing in the web is so overwhelming?
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...I mean, first, because it's...I mean...sexuality is presented in such an agressive way, I think...and everything is so fake and absolutely out of touch with reality. The women usually do things in these movies that are absolutely degrading, absolutely degrading, really, it's ugly, I don't feel at ease describing it.
Ok, that goes for movies in general, all of them are based on illusion and demand us a certain suspension of disbelief. Ok. There are movies in which violence is all that there is and people find it cool.
But that still strikes me as odd. I mean...it's sex. I mean...violence, well, in fact there's nothing odd about it, is there?
But what...I mean...I ask for people who do enjoy these movies, and I don't want to judge anyone, it's just a doubt: where does the pleasure of seeing it come from?
Do men find it attractive to see women playing degraded and submissive roles, often humiliating? Because this is what I saw!
I mean...why? [/QUOTE]
I don't know, I never watched that hardcore stuff much (I once watched a pro porn vid of girls fighting and hitting eachother and then ending up having sex and doing kinky things). But if it's degrading to women, wouldn't it be to men as well (depending on the film)??? And I've read that there's a lot of women who buy these films, and not just gay/bisexual women. Some women like violent kind of things.
My opinion is that those videos are so lame. Too fake. I've seen documentary's on those porn films, the men take viagra to keep it hard and working all day, and the women lube themselves up pretty good. Orgams? Fake. They even put make up over their assholes to make it appear perfectly pink.
Home videos all the way!
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...I mean, first, because it's...I mean...sexuality is presented in such an agressive way, I think...and everything is so fake and absolutely out of touch with reality. The women usually do things in these movies that are absolutely degrading, absolutely degrading, really, it's ugly, I don't feel at ease describing it.
Ok, that goes for movies in general, all of them are based on illusion and demand us a certain suspension of disbelief. Ok. There are movies in which violence is all that there is and people find it cool.
But that still strikes me as odd. I mean...it's sex. I mean...violence, well, in fact there's nothing odd about it, is there?
But what...I mean...I ask for people who do enjoy these movies, and I don't want to judge anyone, it's just a doubt: where does the pleasure of seeing it come from?
Do men find it attractive to see women playing degraded and submissive roles, often humiliating? Because this is what I saw!
I mean...why? [/QUOTE]
I don't know, I never watched that hardcore stuff much (I once watched a pro porn vid of girls fighting and hitting eachother and then ending up having sex and doing kinky things). But if it's degrading to women, wouldn't it be to men as well (depending on the film)??? And I've read that there's a lot of women who buy these films, and not just gay/bisexual women. Some women like violent kind of things.
My opinion is that those videos are so lame. Too fake. I've seen documentary's on those porn films, the men take viagra to keep it hard and working all day, and the women lube themselves up pretty good. Orgams? Fake. They even put make up over their assholes to make it appear perfectly pink.
Home videos all the way!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]StoneColdClassicQueen wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Why are your questions so long?? [/QUOTE]
They arent long at all. Yara has just explained her reasons and thoughts behind asking the question, thats all.
They arent long at all. Yara has just explained her reasons and thoughts behind asking the question, thats all.
The questions are short. There are just too many of them, so it's hard to determine the overall point or direction of the conversation.
Because the world is full of randy people.
There are lots of kinds of porn... not just the typical "man" stuff. Not everything is awful and "violent".
Cheers,
Hor
Cheers,
Hor
as the man known locally as the 'Praa Sands porn King' i say "keep it coming" [if you excuse the pun]
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]JoxerTheDeityPirate wrote: [/QUOTENAME]as the man known locally as the 'Praa Sands porn King' i say "keep it coming" [if you excuse the pun] [/QUOTE]
Hahaha. Of course I excuse the pun! I missed you so very much, really. I love your sense of humor.
:-)
*Hug*
Hahaha. Of course I excuse the pun! I missed you so very much, really. I love your sense of humor.
:-)
*Hug*
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Yara wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...[/QUOTE]
...but porn is so fuckin' funny!
Just the porn audio by itself is funny enough.
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...[/QUOTE]
...but porn is so fuckin' funny!
Just the porn audio by itself is funny enough.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Mr.Jingles wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Yara wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...[/QUOTE]
...but porn is so fuckin' funny!
Just the porn audio by itself is funny enough.[/QUOTE]
yeah it is XD
omg i cant watch it cuz i either feel awkward or i just start laughing.
the funniest is softcore, since they arent paid enough to actually penetrate, so they hump eachothers stomachs or backs XD
i dont feel porn is nessesary. but i guess its like violent video games, instead of taking it out or ruining things on innocent people, keep it at home and get it out of your system XD
oh my...
First, let me explain why I find it odd. I've only seen a couple of these videos with friends. I found it so sad...[/QUOTE]
...but porn is so fuckin' funny!
Just the porn audio by itself is funny enough.[/QUOTE]
yeah it is XD
omg i cant watch it cuz i either feel awkward or i just start laughing.
the funniest is softcore, since they arent paid enough to actually penetrate, so they hump eachothers stomachs or backs XD
i dont feel porn is nessesary. but i guess its like violent video games, instead of taking it out or ruining things on innocent people, keep it at home and get it out of your system XD
oh my...
Good lord, I never expected to see such a thing on here!
Well, I think porn serves its purpose - and during those barren spells when you're not having sex its a useful aid, haha!
Some women like it, and for men its not essential, but it is very useful - men are biologically programmed to work from visual stimulus in these sorts of things, so when its just you and Mrs Hand, its much better than staring at a wall!
As for the degrading part, I think theres a few sides to this. Firstly, hardcore porn like that Yara described actually bores me for the reasons Yara and someone else mentioned - its fake and exaggerated, and I dont believe for a second anyone is really enjoying themselves as much as the soundtrack would make out, hehe.
Home movies are better, and feature less of the degrading and fakery.
However, there is of course some homemade stuff that involves the portrayal of women as submissive, and sex objects. Why?
Well first of all - with homemade stuff, its far more likely that its all consensual, and the reason for it is that both the man and woman find their respective roles enjoyable or arousing in some way: in which case, fair enough-as long as no one gets hurt, thats all good in my book.
Why are these themes so prevailant in hardcore, and sometimes in homemade stuff?
I think its an unfortunate fact that sexually most men are programmed to like to be in control. In fact, not just sexually - generally men like to be in charge. Its all biology - were built to be the big chest thumping male. While this is tempered in a civilised society by respect and equality, during sex, perhaps the most primal thing, often men, to varying degrees are still more aroused when in control, and when a woman is to some extent submissive.
It is of course a matter of degree - I doubt many people want to go as far as hardcore porn goes, and of course some people like it the other way, where the woman runs the show like some sort of dominatrix. Or just a balance.
Porn is fantasy though - it takes these things as far as they can go, which is fine, because its not real, and its controlled, as long as people remember that, everything is alright.
I think you should distinguish between "love making" and "fucking" - the former being a deep, sensual thing two people in love do, the latter being more about pure pleasure and gratification, and that is what porn is about.
Dont worry Yara - I believe in a thing called love, and I dont think many people want to have sex like in a porn film. Unless thats what you're into, hehe.
Well, I think porn serves its purpose - and during those barren spells when you're not having sex its a useful aid, haha!
Some women like it, and for men its not essential, but it is very useful - men are biologically programmed to work from visual stimulus in these sorts of things, so when its just you and Mrs Hand, its much better than staring at a wall!
As for the degrading part, I think theres a few sides to this. Firstly, hardcore porn like that Yara described actually bores me for the reasons Yara and someone else mentioned - its fake and exaggerated, and I dont believe for a second anyone is really enjoying themselves as much as the soundtrack would make out, hehe.
Home movies are better, and feature less of the degrading and fakery.
However, there is of course some homemade stuff that involves the portrayal of women as submissive, and sex objects. Why?
Well first of all - with homemade stuff, its far more likely that its all consensual, and the reason for it is that both the man and woman find their respective roles enjoyable or arousing in some way: in which case, fair enough-as long as no one gets hurt, thats all good in my book.
Why are these themes so prevailant in hardcore, and sometimes in homemade stuff?
I think its an unfortunate fact that sexually most men are programmed to like to be in control. In fact, not just sexually - generally men like to be in charge. Its all biology - were built to be the big chest thumping male. While this is tempered in a civilised society by respect and equality, during sex, perhaps the most primal thing, often men, to varying degrees are still more aroused when in control, and when a woman is to some extent submissive.
It is of course a matter of degree - I doubt many people want to go as far as hardcore porn goes, and of course some people like it the other way, where the woman runs the show like some sort of dominatrix. Or just a balance.
Porn is fantasy though - it takes these things as far as they can go, which is fine, because its not real, and its controlled, as long as people remember that, everything is alright.
I think you should distinguish between "love making" and "fucking" - the former being a deep, sensual thing two people in love do, the latter being more about pure pleasure and gratification, and that is what porn is about.
Dont worry Yara - I believe in a thing called love, and I dont think many people want to have sex like in a porn film. Unless thats what you're into, hehe.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Cwazy little thing wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I think you should distinguish between "love making" and "fucking" - the former being a deep, sensual thing two people in love do, the latter being more about pure pleasure and gratification,[/QUOTE]
You gotta be really good to sell that one...
You gotta be really good to sell that one...
The porn industry is simply another product of the capitalist system.
Women (and men) are being portrayed in a way that'll make the capitalist money and maximize profits, by presenting strange, rarely achievable and twisted ideals for the masses.
Ah, greed.
Women (and men) are being portrayed in a way that'll make the capitalist money and maximize profits, by presenting strange, rarely achievable and twisted ideals for the masses.
Ah, greed.