i think i have an addiction to my medication, plz HELP!!!!!

Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please.

ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose?  

There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made.

I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms.
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Than I will take my words back. If this girl is really this instable as she implies, then she better go look for real-life help instead of starting umpteen topics in which she announces her problems. QZ is simply not he right place for psychological matters like these.

Of course, she might find other people's replies helpful, although they won't solve her problem(s). In my opinion she needs people of flesh and bone in order to fully understand her situation. A shoulder to cry on.

Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Holly2003 wrote: Rick wrote: Please take an overdose. Please.

ffs wise up . How would you like someone telling your 13 year old daughter or sister to take a overdose?  

There really needs to be some sort of moderation on Queenzone. The owner, and some of the contributers, are really asking for trouble with topics like this, and some of the replies made.

I have been here since 2004, so please, don't tell me to wise up. I've seen these attention seekers come and go. It's called trolling in Internet terms.
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To put it bluntly, if she wasn't an attention-seeker, she'd have killed herself weeks ago at the latest. Like Rick said, this is all such by-the-book trolling that I'm no more inclined to believe in it than in the hollow-earth theory. But, to return the original question to you, "how would you like your 13-year-old daughter to be posting sh*t like this on a web-forum?". I'll be the last to deny that this girl has issues, but they have nothing to do with substance abuse or being suicidal. The best thing that QZ can do to help her is delete her account.

Please, please take Grateful Fan's advice and write a letter to your doctor or parents.

what the hell have i done to desreve to get my account deleted!?!?!!?!?!?!?! im just askin for help damn it!!!!!!! im not the one telling a 13 year old to kill herself am i!!!!!!!!! some of you can just be so fucking stuburn and just hear and believe what they want to hear, if u cant accept the truth that i am askin for help here then sod off, my little cry for help isnt hurting you is it, if u dont like it then tough, i dont know what else to do! why dont u read what i put and actualy listen to the real story in hand, how many times must i say this, i do not like talking to people i cant even look people in the face or have a conversation, i can talk better on here thats why i made this thread, if its realy that bad to u that u want to delete my account just grow up!

I'm willing to help. My first advice: punctuation.

Really, overusing exclamation marks won't make your replies more convincing whatsoever.

Panchgani wrote: Please, please take Grateful Fan's advice and write a letter to your doctor or parents.

100% agree.

And if you carry on writing attention seeking crap on these boards expect the vitriol you deserve. Talk to Frank, ring the Samaritans, NHS Direct.... theres loads of stuff out there where you dont have to be face to face

Use your brains!!

(Cant believe I bit)

:-(

a friend of mine went onto childline because we both were being bullied, (hasnt changed) and she got help from it, but because i didnt know how to use it or anythin like that, she couldnt show me at school because the school blocked the site, idk why, so i asked my mom if it would be a good idea to go on there and ask for help about the bullying like lauren did, and she said no and wouldnt let me go on there, tahts why i come here! i was worried shed check the history on my computer and be pissed off at me for it, so this was the safest thing i could think of

You can call childline from a public telephone. The number is 0800 11 11. It's free and confidential and they really can help you more than anyone on Queenzone.

fatty

I support GratefulFan's suggestion to write a letter to your doctor and parents. My girlfriend did that to someone in her family when they wouldn't give her a chance to explain stuff in person, so she wrote them an e-mail instead, and her reasoning for that was "they would be forced to listen by reading what I have to say" So there you go And P.S. For the love of god, please get a blog :-(

lifetimefan is not a troll and i dont think she's attention seeking either.  She is young and vulnerable. 
And Rick, you can get into trouble for net bullying and abuse esp regarding minors.  There is a person behind the typing and as you know lifetime fan already struggles with various issues, the last thing she needs is for an adult to tell her something like that.  I mean seriously get a grip!  Do you remember being 13?  And how would you have felt if someone treated you with that level of contempt! 
I was about to say obviously it would not bother you now if someone said something like that to you, but i suspect it would -- when someone criticised your comment you came back straight away with a retort -- a response that i presume was based on an emotion that was created by that persons comment.  Even if that emotion was mild annoyance, you have a way to deal with it -- you fired back a response.  A 13 year old does not necessarily have the life experiences to be sure of themselves and how they are worthwhile and right.  And a 13 year old has not yet developed either a thick enough skin or else a way to cope (such as your immediate response to criticism). 
I work with kids and frankly if i would hear someone make a comment like this to a minor in real life, either in work or in general life, id report them.  And just because its the net doesnt make 'smart' comments like that either funny or harmless.

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I work with kids and frankly if i would hear someone make a comment like this to a minor in real life, either in work or in general life, id report them.  And just because its the net doesnt make 'smart' comments like that either funny or harmless.
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The thing is, it's life, people WILL and DO give bad, stupid advice, lifetimequeenfan will choice to listen to whoever she wants, She has been given good advice on here, if she can't tell the difference that's her own fault. You should give her more credit. you can learn from not taking bad advice aswell you know.

Hiding the wrong advice from someone is stupid, they will never learn if they don't make the choice.

she’s obviously been fine with it because she’s still here and posted 5 or 10 more threads.

It’s the crys for help people DON'T give that are the problems, when they feel they really have no one to Listen.

Is lifetimefanofqueen a troll? Yes, but not in the way people think, she’s being over enthusiastic because it’s a defence mechanism, an act because she’s lonely, she’s lonely because she likes to be different, and isn’t comfortable with real people.

everyone has felt like this at some point, those with aspersers can really relate.

unfortunately the only person who can help her, is herself, deep down she knows she must face her fears. posting on queenzone will not help, it's doesn't get easier, but you learn to build up an act so you can do these things. Agoraphobia Can only be beat by being strong taking deep breaths and getting on a bus ETC.

thank you emrabt, catqueen, greatfulfan and everyone else who actualy helped, its realy appreatiated :)