Mary austin

Ahh gotcha -- thanks to you both. But even if he did do it, it'd be okay. It's Freddie. He deserves some shiny mirrors and satiny shit.

InvisibleWoman: "I never understood people who come here on forum just to write one or two postings. Mostly something bad about Jim and all good about Mary.
I read Jim's book and didn't see anything offensive, on the contrary. He talked about Freddie in a good way.
The most negative reviews about his book come from people who didn't even read the book.
There are not many sexual things in the book, it's mentioned only a few times, great attention is on emotions.
If he had not mentioned sex at all, I supose the comments would be "oh, he doesn't mention it, he just dream up that they were lovers and partners, he just his gardener etc."
Some fans seem to want that Jim didn't exist in Freddie's life.
I think he was good person who brought a lot of good in Freddie's life. "

[B]Anyone that doesn't recognize anything offensive in Jim's book have awfully low standards and seem not to be aware of Freddie having spent his whole life carefully keeping from his family the very kind of LURID details Jim included in his book (and we're completely unnecessary for the telling of their story).

Saying that the book wasn't ?? fqckfest pornography is a dishonest argument. Whether it was 50 private anecdotes or JUST ONE... It was personal betrayal to have written that Freddie liked to have anal sex (no, not all gay men do) and that he liked to be the one to take it up the arse.

Freddie's parents were still alive when he wrote that. Maybe Jim didn't have concern or respect for Freddie's family and Persian culture--- but Freddie did.

And to claim that what Jim did was anything but a nasty passive-aggressive "f*ck you" to Freddie after he was dead when he couldn't defend himself, may need reading comprehension classes and common decency.[/B]

the troll is back lol

sweetandtender I am interested in part of the will as I am pretty sure that Mary has been given the house and therefore the 50 year rule does not apply. I think some of getting confused with this. I feel the 50 year rule applies more the royalties and other such money matters.

@ FreddieDearie
Low standards? All right.
It's probably that the presentation of your personal opinion and view as a fact is a very high standard.
I see nothing scandalous about the fact that two adults persons in love kiss and hug each other, talking to each other, make love, having sex... Freddie has spoken in interviews about sex and promiscuity. His family knew that he was gay and from what he was ill. They probably knew what Jim was to Freddie and how much he meant to Freddie although they no spoken about it.
You blame Jim published the book after Freddie's death but what are you doing? Jim didn't humiliated him with any of the sentences in the book and interviews. And you?
I don't have Instagram account but I know what you are doing there and I have read some of your comments and your conversations between your several different accounts. Humiliation of a dead person is a high standard?
Is accusing a dead person without any proof that was abusive alcoholic a high standard?
Is zooming photo of his teeth even you know it was a sick is high standard? Is humiliation of a sick man high standard?
When Freddie wears Winnie's ring then they were "married" and when he wears Jim's ring then Jim forced him to wear ring.
If you like something Peter Freestone says, or someone else, you write about it the essay, and if you don't like what he (or someone else) says, you simply skip it.
This topic still has title "Mary Austin" and I see you adore her. Mary said she fell in love with Freddie after three years of their relationship. She probably waited that Freddie became popular. I suppose it's a high standard.

I don't represent my opinion as a fact and I am quite capable of thinking with my own brain. And you act like you were there every moment with Freddie, Jim, Peter, Mary, Joe, Winnie etc. and you know everything. It's like someone pays you to do what you are doing or are sickly jealous of Freddie's and Jim's love. It's really weird.
[b]Did you ever discuss his music?[/b]

Well stated Invisible Woman

well done Invisible Woman . You rock :)

FreddieDearie, have you ever watched any Queen concerts or listened to stuff Freddie says? If that’s the big “lurid” secret that Jim told, it’s no big surprise. Freddie told us already. Especially in the 80s.

You might as well criticize Freddie for his stage show. His parents went to his concerts. I’m thinking they went for the music.

It does make me wonder what people who are oh so shocked by Jim’s book think Freddie was doing on stage when he turned around, bent over, and waggled his bum at the audience.

And how they think he caught HIV, for that matter.

FreddieDearie has several accounts on instagram devoted to hating Jim and slandering him.

She stalks a few people I know and are friends with, steals the content they make to repost and call Jim abusive, mentally disabled and an alcoholic.

She is mentally ill and should be ignored. I feel like I'm insulting those with mental illness by saying that, but there is no other explanation for spending your precious hours on earth hating a man you never met, and calling the people who knew him liars.

She also has several accounts to stalk people with that are under the radar, because everyone has blocked the accounts that are known. She stalks lives on instagram ass well. It's extremely scary and boring on harassment

Who?

I have seen this crazy person so that in the last week of Freddie's life, Jim was enjoying himself at a very seedy club.
Sweetandtenderhooligan is right, this person is crazy crazy and I just don't understand why so much hate.

Freddie made it pretty clear many times he wasn't a saint

'say that' not ' so that '

The more I think about it, the more my opinions about Mary, are changing.

I used to view her as nothing more than a gold digger, who only pretended to love Freddie, when she realized he was becoming/would become famous.

But, if you really study on things she's done and said, I think you can come to the conclusion, there's more than one way, to take her comments and, actions.

The, "I won in the end" statement, she supposedly made, could have meant...." You all tried to replace me in Freddie's life, but, in the end, it was always me." Suppose, it was the others in Freddie's life, who were using him, who were trying to get close to him, in order to get something from him? And, Mary knew that?

In any event, Mary is the only one who says nothing about her private/intimate life with Freddie, she hasn't written a tell all book and, she has never told another living soul, where Freddie's ashes are... I don't know, that spells loyalty, to me.

Where the house is concerned and, 'kicking' people out, some things were probably out of her control.

Point is, you can take anything she's said and done and, put several different spins on it.

Not seeing Freddie for more than half an hour the day he died.... have you ever had to sit and watch a person you cared deeply for, die? It probably wasn't very pleasant. I can see, where she went to see him, knowing he'd soon die, she said what she needed to day to him, then left... because she couldn't bear to watch him die.

Maybe, Mary was no Angel, but, she did stand by Freddie to the end, even though, they had both moved on.... gotta give her credit for that.

....'say'....not, day...