He didnt know in 1986.
I agree. Even if he had AIDS , he didnt know about it.
Why everybody tell different things? Why it s so many lie? Its not only people memory. As example, we didnt read so strange things in Mike Jagger 's biography.
Fenderek, Mary said that Freddie lived with AIDS more that 7 years.
Miriam, I read that too in interviews with Mary Austin. Which would mean Freddie knew he had AIDS since approximately, lets see he passed away 1991, subtract 7 years...about 1984-1985? She claimes he told her 1984. So many contradictory stories it's unreal.
The ONLY PROOF of ever knowing when Freddie knew, was if his sealed, confidential medical documents with the AIDS test results were ever released, which will proabaly never happen, as medical records are legally confidential. But THAT would reveal the truth about exactly when Freddie knew...BUT, ONLY Freddie.
As for who he told, when, and first and in what order, being the band, Mary, Jim, Peter, friends, family, anybody...that is all up to these individual people's accurate or inaccurate memories/stories, conjecture, their "side" of the story, etc. so we will never have proof of any of their stories, only their word.