Do you practice abstinence, and if so, for what reason...
I havent had sex in almost 2 years, and it feels a little weird at times, but I'm fuctioning quite well...surprising at the least. The reason why I'm not doing it, is because for one, I just dont need it like I thought I did, and two, I dont want to end up like some my friends and family (I had a cousin who died from AIDS back in 98) and a couple of friends who dealt with STD's, minor, but still STD's, pregnancy, etc...another factor is that I moved back home with my family, so its easier to hold out on it, plus I have "solo options" if you know what I mean!!! LOL
What about you?
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No, I'm more like "Just do IT" But all my respect to those who decide to act differently.
Then again I haven't gotten "any" in a month now. That sure feels like a very long time.
And I tend to feel some form of a moral hangover if I indulge in sexual activities with someone who I'm not really seriously considering as a "future option" Oh boy, I surely take life too seriously.
Then again I haven't gotten "any" in a month now. That sure feels like a very long time.
And I tend to feel some form of a moral hangover if I indulge in sexual activities with someone who I'm not really seriously considering as a "future option" Oh boy, I surely take life too seriously.
Oh okay...
With me, its the pregnancy factor also...I dont want kids until I'm actually ready for kids!!!...and I would never get an abortion, thats not even an option, and then birth control, the shot, blows you up...so I just dont want to deal with all that, and I dont have a boyfriend right now either...
I think most of me not having anyone special in my life right now, is having to do more with myself if anything...I'm very dissatisfield with myself (did I spell that right?) and I just dont have time for the hang-ups, the drama, etc...and even if I did have the time, I just dont feel like dealing with it.
People are so conditional!
With me, its the pregnancy factor also...I dont want kids until I'm actually ready for kids!!!...and I would never get an abortion, thats not even an option, and then birth control, the shot, blows you up...so I just dont want to deal with all that, and I dont have a boyfriend right now either...
I think most of me not having anyone special in my life right now, is having to do more with myself if anything...I'm very dissatisfield with myself (did I spell that right?) and I just dont have time for the hang-ups, the drama, etc...and even if I did have the time, I just dont feel like dealing with it.
People are so conditional!
I consider any sexual activity outside of marriage to be gravely wrong, and I am not married, so I have never had sex. I will probably never be married either, so I don't waste much time thinking about it.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Farlander wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I consider any sexual activity outside of marriage to be gravely wrong, and I am not married, so I have never had sex. I will probably never be married either, so I don't waste much time thinking about it.[/QUOTE]
How about sexual activity with my hand, some vaseline, and Playboy's centerfold?
How about sexual activity with my hand, some vaseline, and Playboy's centerfold?
my ex gf used to think that magazines like zoo, fhm, nuts were classed as pornographic, untill she fount my real stash, good old playboy.
remember always use a condom, and if your blessed in that department or just big headed, then theres bin liners in the kitchen.
also liked the 1st post about going solo, cracked me up
remember always use a condom, and if your blessed in that department or just big headed, then theres bin liners in the kitchen.
also liked the 1st post about going solo, cracked me up
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME] <font color=FF0099>Linda Of The Valley wrote: [/QUOTENAME]HOW do you people live? lol :P [/QUOTE]
-1 years old? Man, children are doing it younger and younger these days.
-1 years old? Man, children are doing it younger and younger these days.
I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.
Sex is good, as long as there's love in the air. What's the difference between a good and steady relationship and a marriage?
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Alex Solan wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
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you practice letter abstinence? omg! that's sooooo hard!
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you practice letter abstinence? omg! that's sooooo hard!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]The Mir@cle wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Sex is good, as long as there's love in the air. What's the difference between a good and steady relationship and a marriage?[/QUOTE]
the in-out thing I'd say...
the in-out thing I'd say...
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=purple>Miss James wrote: [/QUOTENAME] I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.
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I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.
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I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Mr. Tampon Tea<br><font size=1>Panties inspector. wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=purple>Miss James wrote: [/QUOTENAME] I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.
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I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.[/QUOTE]
I don't like coffee. It tastes bad. I prefer tea...
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I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.[/QUOTE]
I don't like coffee. It tastes bad. I prefer tea...
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color =#CC00FF>***Marial-B*** wrote: [/QUOTENAME]I did abstinence for 22 years, made love with the guy I loved and enjoy an active sex life[/QUOTE]
Wanna write a book about it? I'd call it "Blanca Cholas and her Seven Little Sex Machines."
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.
Wanna write a book about it? I'd call it "Blanca Cholas and her Seven Little Sex Machines."
Cheers.
Mr. Tampon Tea.
Abstinence of sex, or sex AND masturbation, or only masturbation?