[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]me_and_my_innuendo wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Alright, about time something like this came up.
It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.
Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.
Okay, moving on to your dilemma:
It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!
So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?[/QUOTE]
Well im not going because i always wind up upset at the end of these things...
And i realize this is confusing, im sorry...
But basically one friend lied, and totally disrespected me when i tried to help (which she asked me for anyways!) and i refuse to let people walk all over me anymore because ive had it happen too many times in my life and i refuse to be someones doormat...
And now shes playing the exclusion games, o u people come sleepover, blah blah blah...
petty highschool bullshit... And she wont talk to me because according to her, she did nothing to me...
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]me_and_my_innuendo wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Alright, about time something like this came up.
It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.
Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.
Okay, moving on to your dilemma:
It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!
So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?[/QUOTE]
Well im not going because i always wind up upset at the end of these things...
And i realize this is confusing, im sorry...
But basically one friend lied, and totally disrespected me when i tried to help (which she asked me for anyways!) and i refuse to let people walk all over me anymore because ive had it happen too many times in my life and i refuse to be someones doormat...
And now shes playing the exclusion games, o u people come sleepover, blah blah blah...
petty highschool bullshit... And she wont talk to me because according to her, she did nothing to me... and i tried telling her how she disrespected me and she didnt wanna hear it...
And yea, they are drama queens, but shes spoiled and is used to getting what she wants... but she came crying to me (literally) because she felt like shit, and me being the ever dependable one i wanted to help because i think its stupid for all of this to be going on over an overrated dance... and im a fool for helping out because now we dont talk anymore...
And this is not the first time shes treated me like crap in the last few months...
so am i wrong here???
Thanks for the input btw...
It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.
Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.
Okay, moving on to your dilemma:
It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!
So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?[/QUOTE]
Well im not going because i always wind up upset at the end of these things...
And i realize this is confusing, im sorry...
But basically one friend lied, and totally disrespected me when i tried to help (which she asked me for anyways!) and i refuse to let people walk all over me anymore because ive had it happen too many times in my life and i refuse to be someones doormat...
And now shes playing the exclusion games, o u people come sleepover, blah blah blah...
petty highschool bullshit... And she wont talk to me because according to her, she did nothing to me... and i tried telling her how she disrespected me and she didnt wanna hear it...
And yea, they are drama queens, but shes spoiled and is used to getting what she wants... but she came crying to me (literally) because she felt like shit, and me being the ever dependable one i wanted to help because i think its stupid for all of this to be going on over an overrated dance... and im a fool for helping out because now we dont talk anymore...
And this is not the first time shes treated me like crap in the last few months...
so am i wrong here???
Thanks for the input btw...
Today is the prom for my high school.
Since I'm a senior, its expected that I go.
I've been planning for months already that I'm
not going.
And at the last minute, I realize that my friend
is going.
She doesn't like her date, so she said I should go.
I said if I get everything ready in time.
Well, I didn't.
So I'm not going.
But I'm going to go hang out with friends tonight.
I'm not going to let not going to prom runine my night!
Since I'm a senior, its expected that I go.
I've been planning for months already that I'm
not going.
And at the last minute, I realize that my friend
is going.
She doesn't like her date, so she said I should go.
I said if I get everything ready in time.
Well, I didn't.
So I'm not going.
But I'm going to go hang out with friends tonight.
I'm not going to let not going to prom runine my night!
Pissing on decorations...drinking punch that is most likely spiked...lighing off firecrackers in the gym...
We call the "prom" our debs,and I cant wait for mine,I love the idea of going shopping for a dress and all that girly stuff and I have never heard from any of my friends that its crap so it should be good,mine isnt for another 2 years though,grrrrrrrrr.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Ravenetta <h6> the QZ hippy</h6> wrote: [/QUOTENAME]i decided last minute i would go last year, hence the pic in my profile.
my freiend asked me today i could go with him cuz he didnt want to miss out, but he didnt realize it costed money, it got confuseing and now hes pissed, hey he snoozed he lost.
its actually boring unless you get you and your firensd to scream bohemian rhapsody, get everyone in a circle to sway and dance to that song then your night is complete :-D[/QUOTE]
Haha!
Well the problem is, none but one of my friends is a Queen fan and actually listens to classic rock like me... (well the one of my friends that still goes to the same school as i do)
And my schools so small, if i played BO Rhap, theyd ruin it for me by being assholes and screaming and make the DJ turn it off...
But im not going so i can do it at home for less cost to me and have just as much fun!!!
:-P
But i am going to do something with a few other people who aren't going and we're just gonna have a kick ass time...
We dont need to shell out a crazy amount of money to do it either...
i mean really u pay a crap load of money to eat like what bad prime rib or w/e and then u dance to crappy music...
Oh well, im gonna go and hang out with some cool people (to me) anyways so i dont care...
my freiend asked me today i could go with him cuz he didnt want to miss out, but he didnt realize it costed money, it got confuseing and now hes pissed, hey he snoozed he lost.
its actually boring unless you get you and your firensd to scream bohemian rhapsody, get everyone in a circle to sway and dance to that song then your night is complete :-D[/QUOTE]
Haha!
Well the problem is, none but one of my friends is a Queen fan and actually listens to classic rock like me... (well the one of my friends that still goes to the same school as i do)
And my schools so small, if i played BO Rhap, theyd ruin it for me by being assholes and screaming and make the DJ turn it off...
But im not going so i can do it at home for less cost to me and have just as much fun!!!
:-P
But i am going to do something with a few other people who aren't going and we're just gonna have a kick ass time...
We dont need to shell out a crazy amount of money to do it either...
i mean really u pay a crap load of money to eat like what bad prime rib or w/e and then u dance to crappy music...
Oh well, im gonna go and hang out with some cool people (to me) anyways so i dont care...