Self Esteem

When you guys are down in the dumps, how do you rebuild your self esteem? My self esteem and confidence in myself are completley non existent.

^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know!

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Nathan wrote: [/QUOTENAME] how do you rebuild your self esteem?[/QUOTE]

Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot....

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=red>EmpressOfTheUniverse wrote: [/QUOTENAME]^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know! [/QUOTE]

Indeed. Thing is though, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not cool. I need some advice as to how I can rise above that.

When you do something you're particularly proud of, you should either post a picture of it or make a note about it in a book set aside just for this. When you're down on yourself, you can take a look through this book and see all of your accomplishments in one place. That should give your self-esteem a little boost.

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Nathan wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=red>EmpressOfTheUniverse wrote: [/QUOTENAME]^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know! [/QUOTE]

Indeed. Thing is though, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not cool. I need some advice as to how I can rise above that.[/QUOTE]
don't be so hard on yourself!

Watching Freddie/Queen dvd's always helps :)

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Nathan wrote: [/QUOTENAME] how do you rebuild your self esteem?[/QUOTE]

Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot....[/QUOTE]

Same for me too. It's just something i crave to relax and feel better...and it hasn't let me down yet!

[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Nathan wrote: [/QUOTENAME]When you guys are down in the dumps, how do you rebuild your self esteem? My self esteem and confidence in myself are completley non existent.[/QUOTE]

When im down in the dumps I eat loads of nutella sandwiches,listen to white queen as it began over and over again and what gets me out of the dumps is a big hug of one of my friends.Need one?

Hmmm, OK, thanks.

***Big hug***

*hugs you back*

I try my best to like myself.

if you get msn we can talk loads about this GET IT!

Start doing new things. Learn something you've always wanted to know; it'll give you a sense of accomplishment. And improve the skills you already have. :-)

I know what you are going through.
I've always had low self esteem and a very low
self image.
What helped me the most was my "true" friends.
I had a best friend that would always "help" me.
She would hide my secretes from family, and cover
my problems.

Well, she moved away and changed.
I made new friends.
Now I don't have to have any secretes to hide.
and when I have problems, they help me solve it
instead of cover it.

They have always been there for me and never let
me look at the negative side of things.

I say good friends are a great boost for a
healthy self esteem.