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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]CMU HistoryGirl wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<b><font color = "crimson"> ThomasQuinn wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]CMU HistoryGirl wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Because we can't find anyone else that isn't taken by some other lucky girl or isn't gay. Love sucks and that's the end of it. Screw it all, I'm going to just bury myself in my research for the rest of my life, easier than dealing with "nice" guys when they all turn out to be selfish, immature babies[/QUOTE]

Plenty of single nice guys out there. Sadly, most of us are perpetually in a state of hurt over having been dumped once too many.[/QUOTE]

Girls aren't so different, Caspar. Please don't tell me you think I just came up with this idea, out of the fun of it. I'm just sick to death of everything, and I'm pretty much at my final straw. I don't know how long I can hold out on hope when it doesn't seem to do anything but disappoint me. At least if you expect to fail, it can only get better from there, and you don't have to deal with the Fall when it doesn't work. Between having been engaged and having to mutually end that relationship and dealing with "nice" guys who are either too scared or too selfish to deal with anything, I'm fed up. Most of us girls are hurting too, maybe we are just alittle better at hiding it, but the pain is still there[/QUOTE]

If there's ONE thing I'm good at, it's hiding it. In a vain attempt to hide it from myself, mostly, I suppose, but still. Anyway, I suppose that you and me both share most people's fate.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"...
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"... [/QUOTE]

But you have to show her how good you are.

And I have to ask... how can you love that girl if you don't yet know her and she doesn't yet know you? And if she's driven by looks not heart, then what's there to love about her in the first place? (Same goes for guys, btw, not just girls.)
"The others don't like my interviews. And frankly, I don't care much for theirs." ~ Freddie Mercury
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"... [/QUOTE]

Oh shut it. Go back in your shell :-P
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because nice guys are boring.

lol. Nah, I dunno why, but I always seem to prefer the jerks.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"... [/QUOTE]

But you have to show her how good you are.

[/QUOTE]

Nothing that a good old fashioned pearl necklace won't fix.
The Golden Gate Bridge should have a long bungee cord for people who aren’t quite ready to commit suicide but want to get in a little practice.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
But you have to show her how good you are.

And I have to ask... how can you love that girl if you don't yet know her and she doesn't yet know you? And if she's driven by looks not heart, then what's there to love about her in the first place? (Same goes for guys, btw, not just girls.)[/QUOTE]

These are the questions that can't be answered unless you can calculate your love and other feelings. But in the women case, from what I know about women (nether I know everything about them or I know nothing at all about them, there's no third option) - you can always say what kind of male will be more interesting to them than any others. And he'll be a total jerk (from point of view of other men of course).

BTW, I'm shit inside, so everything is over for me, but now it's Rick's problem... ;-P
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Haystacks Calhounski wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"... [/QUOTE]

But you have to show her how good you are.

[/QUOTE]

Nothing that a good old fashioned pearl necklace won't fix. [/QUOTE]

Sorry, babe, it's diamonds. Or rubies or emeralds. Though, if pearls were offered, I suppose they'd be an acceptable substitute... at least temporarily.

(kidding)
"The others don't like my interviews. And frankly, I don't care much for theirs." ~ Freddie Mercury
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME] These are the questions that can't be answered unless you can calculate your love and other feelings. But in the women case, from what I know about women (nether I know everything about them or I know nothing at all about them, there's no third option) - you can always say what kind of male will be more interesting to them than any others. And he'll be a total jerk (from point of view of other men of course).

BTW, I'm shit inside, so everything is over for me, but now it's Rick's problem... ;-P [/QUOTE]

You know, Serry, you puzzle me. Sometimes you're so down on yourself and always you're down on love. Yet, you're attractive and intelligent... and often funny in a subtle way (that's not meant as a come-on, I'm just stating facts).

Smart and funny are two of the main requirements for "getting the girl". With all your woes about love, it seems to me, you're looking at the wrong type of woman. If those you're interested in are interested in jerks, then maybe you need to reevaluate what you want in a woman.

As to everything being over, nothing is over for you unless you give up, and you have too much to offer to be giving up. That goes for all of you posting the blues here.
"The others don't like my interviews. And frankly, I don't care much for theirs." ~ Freddie Mercury
"As to everything being over, nothing is over for you unless you give up, and you have too much to offer to be giving up."

I gave up. But I hope Zebonka and starter of the thread won't follow my way. Good luck!
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Haystacks Calhounski wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]magicalfreddiemercury wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]<font color=blue>Rick wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
True love lives inside, not on the outside. If a girl doesn't respect that, then she is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]

It's so easy to say, Serry, but if you love that girl and you're an ugly cunt - what's then? Sometimes you can't say to your heart "Huh, she's not for me if she can't see how good I am inside"... [/QUOTE]

But you have to show her how good you are.

[/QUOTE]

Nothing that a good old fashioned pearl necklace won't fix. [/QUOTE]

Sorry, babe, it's diamonds. Or rubies or emeralds. Though, if pearls were offered, I suppose they'd be an acceptable substitute... at least temporarily.

(kidding)[/QUOTE]

Nah, I've always found that nothing says "I Love You" like a good pearl necklace.
The Golden Gate Bridge should have a long bungee cord for people who aren’t quite ready to commit suicide but want to get in a little practice.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME]"As to everything being over, nothing is over for you unless you give up, and you have too much to offer to be giving up."

I gave up. But I hope Zebonka and starter of the thread won't follow my way. Good luck![/QUOTE]

Ahh...so me and Caspar aren't the only ones giving up then, huh? That's kinda comforting
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]CMU HistoryGirl wrote: [/QUOTENAME][QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Serry... wrote: [/QUOTENAME]"As to everything being over, nothing is over for you unless you give up, and you have too much to offer to be giving up."

I gave up. But I hope Zebonka and starter of the thread won't follow my way. Good luck![/QUOTE]

Ahh...so me and Caspar aren't the only ones giving up then, huh? That's kinda comforting [/QUOTE]

Ah, man, you guys, come on. You're all so young. Giving up shouldn't be an option.
"The others don't like my interviews. And frankly, I don't care much for theirs." ~ Freddie Mercury