snifflese wrote:
I think calling Adam a queen would very much depend on who said it and how. It is like being called Madam. If Brian says that with love, it is fine. But if Happy Star or Runner call Adam that, it would not be fine because they would mean something deragatory by using that term.
Being obsessed with someone has nothing to do with "the homophobia excuse". I agree with Caroline that Adam might be in a different place now, if the AMA stuff hadn't happened and that was related to Adam being gay. Pictures of him and his boyfriend were released on Fox News and I am pretty sure that didn't help Adam win Idol. Adam has himself mentioned being told by a theater director to "tone it down" (the gay). He has talked more lately about being gay and there were definitely things that affected him because of homophobia. I think Fever would have been a huge hit, but he couldn't put "him" in there. Even 10 years ago things were quite different and Adam was most definitely affected by them. To say that in no way means I am obsessed with him! I don't understand the relationship to feeling Adam's career has been impacted by homophobia and obsession.
I truly don't believe that Caroline is in any way lusting after Adam. That is ridiculous. Even old gals still can see if a gentleman looks good or not and there is no lust there! I can say Elvis was a hot ticket, but I am not lusting after him. Being able to say that someone is handsome or sexy does not necessarily imply lust. Geez Louise!! Quit throwing crap at her just to see what sticks!!
People can focus on what they want. It is harder for me to focus on Freddie, since I never saw him in concert or anything like that. I can enjoy Queen for what it is without an encyclopedic knowledge of Freddie. I have been following Adam for 10 years almost, seen him in every tour and the QAL tours and he interests me more and I am sure the same goes for Caroline. Adam and Queen are a known entity that we read about and have seen and Freddie is just kind of out there. I am just not as involved with him, so it doesn't pique my interest as much. It doesn't mean I don't admire him, but I don't think of him on a day to day basis. We post here about QAL and not on the solely Queen boards for a reason. And that is OK to do, Icy, You don't need to throw that in everyone's face. Everybody has preferences and they are all good!
Look at this way. Look where AL is now. Forget the bloody AMA Awards, what happened, happened, and I think AL was stronger and more determined because of it, or in spite of it.
I'm thinking some people throw around homophobia too easily in regards to AL. What excuses will it be next time if his solo music doesn't do well?
Yeah, sweetcaroline lusts over AL. Why does she have to point out how good looking, sexy, gorgeous he is...and on Queen boards. That's lusting to me. It's like horny Bieber fans from a few years back that preteens used to post. Thing is sweetcaroline is far from a preteen at least age wise.
What do you mean Freddie is just kind of out there?
I'd love your views on some things about Freddie and Queen. But it doesn't interest you as much as Q+AL dose, whch honestly I think is a shame. I know you like other music, which is good, at least there is that.
As for throwing things in my face. How many times will sweetcaroline throw and bitch in my face because I haven't gone to my Q+AL shows? Plenty. And I think that's messed up, especially I explained to her why I couldn't go. So she does her share of throwing things around too.
Yes, everyone has preferences. I like Q+PR more than Q+AL, but I admire and respect Freddie, Brian Roger and John even more. I'm not ashamed of that.