Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]runy wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?[/QUOTE]
Wow is that you in your pic? You've got such a beautiful neck!
Wow is that you in your pic? You've got such a beautiful neck!
Oh, DJ, you know we both are completely sane. We're just a little "off" every now and again. ;-)
Actually, isn't the internet more of a place to tell completely lies and to act unlike yourself? I think I see another flawed theory.
Actually, isn't the internet more of a place to tell completely lies and to act unlike yourself? I think I see another flawed theory.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]
You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]and I am certain that these so called "girls" here understand totally what I'm saying, but won't admit to it.
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And I hope those thoughts keep you warm at night.
You'll need something.
You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.
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[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]and I am certain that these so called "girls" here understand totally what I'm saying, but won't admit to it.
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And I hope those thoughts keep you warm at night.
You'll need something.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]runy wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?[/QUOTE]
providing you're willing with your partner...exactly :)
providing you're willing with your partner...exactly :)
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it.
It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.
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I like to be dominated by men in the bedroom, but that doesn't mean I like rough sex.
Actually I don't like rough sex at all.
It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.
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I like to be dominated by men in the bedroom, but that doesn't mean I like rough sex.
Actually I don't like rough sex at all.
"Women like jerks. They get turned on by Jerks. Why? Because there's something sexual to women about an angry, mean, masculine guy. He's dangerous, mean, rough, and it turns them on.
This is for EVERY WOMAN.
You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women"
I hope they keep you in a cage. It's the oldest excuse of a rapist to say that the woman meant "yes" when she said no and all the fighting was just a sexual game. Take it from the women on this board: There is no excuse for abusive behaviour of any kind.
This is for EVERY WOMAN.
You so called women who deny it are being dishonest, or are not really women"
I hope they keep you in a cage. It's the oldest excuse of a rapist to say that the woman meant "yes" when she said no and all the fighting was just a sexual game. Take it from the women on this board: There is no excuse for abusive behaviour of any kind.
Ok whatever.
Who said anything about rape?
In the example I gave, it was her bf/husband, and obviously, given the context, the woman enjoys it. It's a game.
Who said anything about rape?
In the example I gave, it was her bf/husband, and obviously, given the context, the woman enjoys it. It's a game.
You are trying to ask women their opinions on the function of their subconscious. This, by definition, is completely stupid.
It is somewhat acknowledged that many women have a tendency to fall for "arrogant jerks" rather than "nice guys" when seeking a short-term partner. In fact, when seeking a long-term partner, it's quite the opposite. But these terms are extremely vague, and obviously this is not a blanket theory that can always be applied. Psychology is not like physics, where force will always equal mass times acceleration.
Every human mind is unique, each shaped by past experiences and inherited characteristics. While men and women do have "trends," nothing is ever written in stone.
Also, first impressions (such as when you would court someone in a bar) are also very different from encounters within a social group (such as when you would court a classmate, or a friend). How many times have I heard that you can't get a good friend of yours to date you? And how many times have I seen it happen? Don't be stupid and think one glove fits everybody.
Now, we've all heard those same dating tips. "Women like men to be arrogant, but not overbearing. They like confidence and prestige. They like a guy with social status, but that's not important if you know how to play her feelings. She will be naturally attracted to what you might consider to be a 'jerk-like' attitude." Well, what would you know if that if you got that down, it would work 90% of the time. What people who give these tips don't realize, is the correlation between this type of attraction and the type of girls it attracts.
A beautiful girl at a bar, at a club, etc. will probably fall for this routine. Why? Well, my conjecture is that a certain type of girl frequents such establishments. If you want to go work your mojo in a bar, go right ahead. It won't necessarily work on a Queenzone forum, in a high school, or in a book club. Maybe it will? Who knows. But one thing I and everybody else knows, is that it won't work all the time. Guaranteed.
It is somewhat acknowledged that many women have a tendency to fall for "arrogant jerks" rather than "nice guys" when seeking a short-term partner. In fact, when seeking a long-term partner, it's quite the opposite. But these terms are extremely vague, and obviously this is not a blanket theory that can always be applied. Psychology is not like physics, where force will always equal mass times acceleration.
Every human mind is unique, each shaped by past experiences and inherited characteristics. While men and women do have "trends," nothing is ever written in stone.
Also, first impressions (such as when you would court someone in a bar) are also very different from encounters within a social group (such as when you would court a classmate, or a friend). How many times have I heard that you can't get a good friend of yours to date you? And how many times have I seen it happen? Don't be stupid and think one glove fits everybody.
Now, we've all heard those same dating tips. "Women like men to be arrogant, but not overbearing. They like confidence and prestige. They like a guy with social status, but that's not important if you know how to play her feelings. She will be naturally attracted to what you might consider to be a 'jerk-like' attitude." Well, what would you know if that if you got that down, it would work 90% of the time. What people who give these tips don't realize, is the correlation between this type of attraction and the type of girls it attracts.
A beautiful girl at a bar, at a club, etc. will probably fall for this routine. Why? Well, my conjecture is that a certain type of girl frequents such establishments. If you want to go work your mojo in a bar, go right ahead. It won't necessarily work on a Queenzone forum, in a high school, or in a book club. Maybe it will? Who knows. But one thing I and everybody else knows, is that it won't work all the time. Guaranteed.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]It's my theory that women subconsciously want to be dominated sexually. This only applies in bed. Women like men who dominate them. Women like rough sex. Women like it.
It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.
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The thing is, if the woman WAS into it, then she would have told the husband/bf ahead of time and it would not be NC, it'd be more like a role play, therefore different than asked in the question.
It's just my theory. I could be wrong though.
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The thing is, if the woman WAS into it, then she would have told the husband/bf ahead of time and it would not be NC, it'd be more like a role play, therefore different than asked in the question.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Oh I'm the messed up one?
FYI, I'm a naturally nice guy, and I hardly get dates.
It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me.
I've done research on this for TWO YEARS, and my conclusions are DEAD ON!
I don't think you women consciously understand why and what attracts you. It's all in the subconscious. Women desire masculine guys who display natural leadership. Women LOVE to obey guys and LOVE guys who tell women what to do.
Women do not like guys who want to delegate authority. women like take charge guys in life and in the bed!
I am totally not bsing you. My theories have been proven in real life!
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Well, as a "nice girl", I say the same thing happens with guys. If you're nice to guys, they're not interested in you. If you treat them like dirt, they crawl back for more. Who knows why? *shrugs*
FYI, I'm a naturally nice guy, and I hardly get dates.
It's YOU women who are messed up, wanting jerks than sensible nice guys like me.
I've done research on this for TWO YEARS, and my conclusions are DEAD ON!
I don't think you women consciously understand why and what attracts you. It's all in the subconscious. Women desire masculine guys who display natural leadership. Women LOVE to obey guys and LOVE guys who tell women what to do.
Women do not like guys who want to delegate authority. women like take charge guys in life and in the bed!
I am totally not bsing you. My theories have been proven in real life!
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Well, as a "nice girl", I say the same thing happens with guys. If you're nice to guys, they're not interested in you. If you treat them like dirt, they crawl back for more. Who knows why? *shrugs*
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]SomebodyWhoLoves wrote: [/QUOTENAME]In real life, I see it all the time. Bad boys get the hot girls. The nice boys are losers.
You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.
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Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't like bad boys. Well, at least not generally. I guess Mark Fuhrman is an exception ;) But generally, I like the Nick Berg/Ron Goldman/John Edwards type... The gentleman ^_^
You won't convince me that I'm wrong here.
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Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't like bad boys. Well, at least not generally. I guess Mark Fuhrman is an exception ;) But generally, I like the Nick Berg/Ron Goldman/John Edwards type... The gentleman ^_^
cadburys roses.... its all going on in the street
i dunno where this is going but somebodywholoves is wrong, all women are different, so some women would like the idea that you said, the others wont, we're all different, as long as your grateful for what you get, i say that, because my gf said to me, "have you been having sex behind my back?" i said course i have, who the fucking hell did you think it was, also it wouldnt hurt if you turned round every once in a while to check on how im doing.
i dunno where this is going but somebodywholoves is wrong, all women are different, so some women would like the idea that you said, the others wont, we're all different, as long as your grateful for what you get, i say that, because my gf said to me, "have you been having sex behind my back?" i said course i have, who the fucking hell did you think it was, also it wouldnt hurt if you turned round every once in a while to check on how im doing.
Well, I am a woman, I have no reason to lie about what I like subconcious or otherwise. I am married to a gentleman and that's why we are still married. He knows how to treat a lady and I would not tolerate being treated the way your sick scenerio plays out. Maybe that IS some people's cup of tea.....definately not mine.
[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]runy wrote: [/QUOTENAME]Well, I hate jerks and love guys that can respect me and I can respect them too. But I guess it would be rather interesting to act a bit wild one evening. No injuries, of course... ;) That wouldn't be a rape, I'd call this a game. And why not, if that's a person I can trust?[/QUOTE]
This is how I feel as well. I like adventure and new things, but I do not want to be physically hurt, or emotionally hurt either. However, something out of the ordinary is nice!!! I'm not in to the violence thing or disrespectful thing. I wouldn't want to be called dirty names but I like new and exotic things.
I'm not lying either. I'll always tell the truth.
This is how I feel as well. I like adventure and new things, but I do not want to be physically hurt, or emotionally hurt either. However, something out of the ordinary is nice!!! I'm not in to the violence thing or disrespectful thing. I wouldn't want to be called dirty names but I like new and exotic things.
I'm not lying either. I'll always tell the truth.