the dude 1366 wrote:
Ok to anyone thinking negative comments on here are bordering on homphobic...my gay best friend said this video is embarrassing. This is just extra gay for the sake of it. It's not a statement or risque or revolutionary. It is a bad, bad choice.
Sorry to pick on your post when there are plenty of other examples but is your 'gay best friend' also extremely theatrically camp? Do you go to the pub with him in his feather boa? Does he mince along swishing his arse from side to side?
Because referring to Lambert's performance as being too 'gay' implies that all gay men are camp. You're defining 'gay' by using Lambert as an example.
And that is wrong. It's like saying all lesbians are butch diesel dykes or all black people wear grass skirts and are cannibals.
It's not just factually incorrect, it's ignorant and offensive.
If you have a problem with Lambert's performance (as I do), slag it off for what it is - OVER THE TOP CAMP, NOT GAY. Campness may be a feature of a small percentage of gay men's behaviour but certainly not the majority.
There is a welsh rugby player, once the most capped Welsh rugby union player - Gareth Thomas. 1.91m and 103kg of as hard masculinity as you are ever likely to find. He came out as gay in 2009.
A I said earlier describing Lamberts performance as 'too gay' just doesn't make sense.
Masculine gay men are not the minority of gay men. It's just that straight society and media prefer to highlight the more 'camp', 'outlandish'' examples for reason of titillation and childish amusement.
A careless trap that a few people on here have fallen into, offending others into the bargain.